"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I go to prom?

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It's best you go.

In my case, I attended an all boys parochial school. Going to prom alone was as bad as not going at all. You'd be the laughing stock of the school for a long time. I got lucky and got a date.

But you only live once.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ronnie Poleman

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Brighty, GO TO THE PROM!!!

It's a part of our high school culture, it won't harm you to go and surely you want to mix with your fellow students and have a good time?

Some people despise their high school, but it isn't about the establishment (or raging against it). I enjoyed my prom thoroughly even though I was strongly against some ways in which my high school was run. The only person really losing out is you, no one else. Do you want to look back on your prom and regret not going?

Who knows, you might take a girl you don't find too hot to the prom, but end up meeting other girls and finding an HB and closing with her ( this happened to me on my junior prom haha). My point is, just because you take a girl to the prom, doesn't mean you can't go for other girls!

A Don Juan doesn't restrict himself to one woman if he wants many, and he doesn't apologise for his innate male desires!

Whatever you do in life, in situations like these where you aren't risking anything, GO FOR IT. This applies to being a Don Juan, approaching girls, finding new hobbies, playing sports, college applications, broadening your horizons etc, not just a prom, but if you cultivate that attitude of living life to the full now it will enrich your life in the long run.


So what are you waiting for?
 

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.

Ahh.

Well, in that case...

Brighty, did you end up going to your prom, and if so, how was it?
 

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.

It was a newbie! Son of a b*tch! Got sucked into a mean less thread for lack of observational effort!
 

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.
LMAO

I wonder what other problems from the past we can solve.... I feel like Sam out of quantum leap.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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