"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I go to prom?

nismo-4

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It's best you go.

In my case, I attended an all boys parochial school. Going to prom alone was as bad as not going at all. You'd be the laughing stock of the school for a long time. I got lucky and got a date.

But you only live once.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ronnie Poleman

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Brighty, GO TO THE PROM!!!

It's a part of our high school culture, it won't harm you to go and surely you want to mix with your fellow students and have a good time?

Some people despise their high school, but it isn't about the establishment (or raging against it). I enjoyed my prom thoroughly even though I was strongly against some ways in which my high school was run. The only person really losing out is you, no one else. Do you want to look back on your prom and regret not going?

Who knows, you might take a girl you don't find too hot to the prom, but end up meeting other girls and finding an HB and closing with her ( this happened to me on my junior prom haha). My point is, just because you take a girl to the prom, doesn't mean you can't go for other girls!

A Don Juan doesn't restrict himself to one woman if he wants many, and he doesn't apologise for his innate male desires!

Whatever you do in life, in situations like these where you aren't risking anything, GO FOR IT. This applies to being a Don Juan, approaching girls, finding new hobbies, playing sports, college applications, broadening your horizons etc, not just a prom, but if you cultivate that attitude of living life to the full now it will enrich your life in the long run.


So what are you waiting for?
 

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.

Ahh.

Well, in that case...

Brighty, did you end up going to your prom, and if so, how was it?
 

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.

It was a newbie! Son of a b*tch! Got sucked into a mean less thread for lack of observational effort!
 

S0LID

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.
LMAO

I wonder what other problems from the past we can solve.... I feel like Sam out of quantum leap.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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