"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should I go to prom?

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It's best you go.

In my case, I attended an all boys parochial school. Going to prom alone was as bad as not going at all. You'd be the laughing stock of the school for a long time. I got lucky and got a date.

But you only live once.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ronnie Poleman

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Brighty, GO TO THE PROM!!!

It's a part of our high school culture, it won't harm you to go and surely you want to mix with your fellow students and have a good time?

Some people despise their high school, but it isn't about the establishment (or raging against it). I enjoyed my prom thoroughly even though I was strongly against some ways in which my high school was run. The only person really losing out is you, no one else. Do you want to look back on your prom and regret not going?

Who knows, you might take a girl you don't find too hot to the prom, but end up meeting other girls and finding an HB and closing with her ( this happened to me on my junior prom haha). My point is, just because you take a girl to the prom, doesn't mean you can't go for other girls!

A Don Juan doesn't restrict himself to one woman if he wants many, and he doesn't apologise for his innate male desires!

Whatever you do in life, in situations like these where you aren't risking anything, GO FOR IT. This applies to being a Don Juan, approaching girls, finding new hobbies, playing sports, college applications, broadening your horizons etc, not just a prom, but if you cultivate that attitude of living life to the full now it will enrich your life in the long run.


So what are you waiting for?
 

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.

Ahh.

Well, in that case...

Brighty, did you end up going to your prom, and if so, how was it?
 

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.

It was a newbie! Son of a b*tch! Got sucked into a mean less thread for lack of observational effort!
 

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Maxtro said:
ROFL is anybody checking the date on this thread before they post?

04-11-2009

I'm pretty sure the prom happened by now. And most likely Brighty has graduated.
LMAO

I wonder what other problems from the past we can solve.... I feel like Sam out of quantum leap.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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