"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should i go to bed with this girl?

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There's this girl who's all over me, and wants to bang me above everything, but there's no chance i'll go long term with her, now on the other hand, there's this other girl i'm going out for out for the fifth date who i'm really interested in that i'm pretty sure i'll be banging next date.
It's been a very long time since i haven't gotten laid, thankfully to my own choice, now i'll probably get to bang 2 in two consecutive days ( sat and sun ), so, since the last time i had sex i literally lasted 5 seconds, i was planning on using the girl i'm not really interested in to get to extra training before i got to bed with the girl im REALLY interested in. I don't have premature ejac, i just get very nervous when i havent banged anyone in a long time. Is it worth it? Or would just jacking off do the trick?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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UPDATE since no one commented. Ended up going out with someone i matched today on tinder who was way cuter, but also not long term material, but cute enough for me to go down on, so we banged, i lasted like an hour or so, so i guess im ready for my super sunday.
 

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Anothet shocking update. Yesterday she went out partying with her gay guy friends and girlfriends and just broke our date for today with no counter offer, so she's out.

Moral of the story: dont count your chickens before they hatch.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you wanna fvck, then fvck. Simple.
 

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I get it, but i don't really enjoy fvcking people i barelly know, never worked for me.
Well then you don't wanna fvck. So don't fvck.

That's what I said, right?
 

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Well then you don't wanna fvck. So don't fvck.

That's what I said, right?
Yeah, but the one i wanted to fvck that i thought wanted to fvck me back, turned out she didn't wanna fvck at all, so instead of fvck, now im the one who got fvcked.
 

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Yeah, but the one i wanted to fvck that i thought wanted to fvck me back, turned out she didn't wanna fvck at all, so instead of fvck, now im the one who got fvcked.
Such is life.

Keep fishing. Don't get upset when your line breaks. It's part of the game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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There's this girl who's all over me, and wants to bang me above everything, but there's no chance i'll go long term with her, now on the other hand, there's this other girl i'm going out for out for the fifth date who i'm really interested in that i'm pretty sure i'll be banging next date.
It's been a very long time since i haven't gotten laid, thankfully to my own choice, now i'll probably get to bang 2 in two consecutive days ( sat and sun ), so, since the last time i had sex i literally lasted 5 seconds, i was planning on using the girl i'm not really interested in to get to extra training before i got to bed with the girl im REALLY interested in. I don't have premature ejac, i just get very nervous when i havent banged anyone in a long time. Is it worth it? Or would just jacking off do the trick?
Smash both. What one girl won't do, another will. The only reasons not to smash is she's post wall, fat or a feminist.
 
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