"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should i go to bed with this girl?

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There's this girl who's all over me, and wants to bang me above everything, but there's no chance i'll go long term with her, now on the other hand, there's this other girl i'm going out for out for the fifth date who i'm really interested in that i'm pretty sure i'll be banging next date.
It's been a very long time since i haven't gotten laid, thankfully to my own choice, now i'll probably get to bang 2 in two consecutive days ( sat and sun ), so, since the last time i had sex i literally lasted 5 seconds, i was planning on using the girl i'm not really interested in to get to extra training before i got to bed with the girl im REALLY interested in. I don't have premature ejac, i just get very nervous when i havent banged anyone in a long time. Is it worth it? Or would just jacking off do the trick?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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UPDATE since no one commented. Ended up going out with someone i matched today on tinder who was way cuter, but also not long term material, but cute enough for me to go down on, so we banged, i lasted like an hour or so, so i guess im ready for my super sunday.
 
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Anothet shocking update. Yesterday she went out partying with her gay guy friends and girlfriends and just broke our date for today with no counter offer, so she's out.

Moral of the story: dont count your chickens before they hatch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you wanna fvck, then fvck. Simple.
 
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djthiago1 said:
I get it, but i don't really enjoy fvcking people i barelly know, never worked for me.
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Well then you don't wanna fvck. So don't fvck.

That's what I said, right?
 
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GrowingPains said:
Well then you don't wanna fvck. So don't fvck.

That's what I said, right?
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Yeah, but the one i wanted to fvck that i thought wanted to fvck me back, turned out she didn't wanna fvck at all, so instead of fvck, now im the one who got fvcked.
 
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djthiago1 said:
Yeah, but the one i wanted to fvck that i thought wanted to fvck me back, turned out she didn't wanna fvck at all, so instead of fvck, now im the one who got fvcked.
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Such is life.

Keep fishing. Don't get upset when your line breaks. It's part of the game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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djthiago1 said:
There's this girl who's all over me, and wants to bang me above everything, but there's no chance i'll go long term with her, now on the other hand, there's this other girl i'm going out for out for the fifth date who i'm really interested in that i'm pretty sure i'll be banging next date.
It's been a very long time since i haven't gotten laid, thankfully to my own choice, now i'll probably get to bang 2 in two consecutive days ( sat and sun ), so, since the last time i had sex i literally lasted 5 seconds, i was planning on using the girl i'm not really interested in to get to extra training before i got to bed with the girl im REALLY interested in. I don't have premature ejac, i just get very nervous when i havent banged anyone in a long time. Is it worth it? Or would just jacking off do the trick?
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Smash both. What one girl won't do, another will. The only reasons not to smash is she's post wall, fat or a feminist.
 
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