"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should i go to bed with this girl?

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There's this girl who's all over me, and wants to bang me above everything, but there's no chance i'll go long term with her, now on the other hand, there's this other girl i'm going out for out for the fifth date who i'm really interested in that i'm pretty sure i'll be banging next date.
It's been a very long time since i haven't gotten laid, thankfully to my own choice, now i'll probably get to bang 2 in two consecutive days ( sat and sun ), so, since the last time i had sex i literally lasted 5 seconds, i was planning on using the girl i'm not really interested in to get to extra training before i got to bed with the girl im REALLY interested in. I don't have premature ejac, i just get very nervous when i havent banged anyone in a long time. Is it worth it? Or would just jacking off do the trick?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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UPDATE since no one commented. Ended up going out with someone i matched today on tinder who was way cuter, but also not long term material, but cute enough for me to go down on, so we banged, i lasted like an hour or so, so i guess im ready for my super sunday.
 

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Anothet shocking update. Yesterday she went out partying with her gay guy friends and girlfriends and just broke our date for today with no counter offer, so she's out.

Moral of the story: dont count your chickens before they hatch.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you wanna fvck, then fvck. Simple.
 

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I get it, but i don't really enjoy fvcking people i barelly know, never worked for me.
Well then you don't wanna fvck. So don't fvck.

That's what I said, right?
 

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Well then you don't wanna fvck. So don't fvck.

That's what I said, right?
Yeah, but the one i wanted to fvck that i thought wanted to fvck me back, turned out she didn't wanna fvck at all, so instead of fvck, now im the one who got fvcked.
 

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Yeah, but the one i wanted to fvck that i thought wanted to fvck me back, turned out she didn't wanna fvck at all, so instead of fvck, now im the one who got fvcked.
Such is life.

Keep fishing. Don't get upset when your line breaks. It's part of the game.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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There's this girl who's all over me, and wants to bang me above everything, but there's no chance i'll go long term with her, now on the other hand, there's this other girl i'm going out for out for the fifth date who i'm really interested in that i'm pretty sure i'll be banging next date.
It's been a very long time since i haven't gotten laid, thankfully to my own choice, now i'll probably get to bang 2 in two consecutive days ( sat and sun ), so, since the last time i had sex i literally lasted 5 seconds, i was planning on using the girl i'm not really interested in to get to extra training before i got to bed with the girl im REALLY interested in. I don't have premature ejac, i just get very nervous when i havent banged anyone in a long time. Is it worth it? Or would just jacking off do the trick?
Smash both. What one girl won't do, another will. The only reasons not to smash is she's post wall, fat or a feminist.
 
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