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Should I go to a bigger city for higher quality women?

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I've gamed everywhere and in my opinion Los Angeles is the toughest dating market to pull in. I am extremely thankful that I grew up there because it taught me the importance of aggressive game. I will say this again If you can pull a bad chick in los angeles you can pull a bad chick anywhere. When I relocated to a small town down south, I was shocked at how my closing rate became.

. Right now I am chasing greatness, ds. I'm 28 and not getting any younger. I am trying to lock down the ultimate, the creme of the croppe. She has to be a 9 plus.... I've been ****ing 8's since I was 23 when I was broke as ****...., its time to up the scale.

do I remain a big fish in a small pond, or do I leave these southern women behind and go compete for the baddest bitches on the planet to compete with the big boys for the baddest girls on the planet? I just don't see it being possible to develop a rotation of 4-5 9/10 pluses, if your not in a big city. The hottest chicks I've ****ed this year have all not been from my town they have been on weekend trips, that makes no ****ing sense. The only benefit to a small town is its a nice ego boost and can get your confidence back.
 

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What kind of work do you do that you can just up and move anywhere on account of women?

NYC is the best market btw.

LA is tough but ever been to SF? lol
 

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I live in Boise - pop. of 200,000 - and the quality of women here is outstanding.

Miami's good. So is anywhere near Harrisonburg, VA. That's where James Madison University is. If you like 22-25 year olds like yours truly, then you'll love it there.
 

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What kind of work do you do that you can just up and move anywhere on account of women?

NYC is the best market btw.

LA is tough but ever been to SF? lol
I broker loads so everything I do is over the phone. I just don't want to throw away my prime years in a small town.
 

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It is about mastering your community regardless of metro size. The Pyramid is the same shape just bigger in a bigger town/city.

Look for places that have the same Values as you feel you do and excel at.

An Average man will be average where ever he goes.
 

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Phoenix/Scottsdale has loads of quality women and the cost of living is still reasonable. Yeah it's hot but the women get super-horny and bored (too hot to do much outside) in the summertime here.
 

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It is about mastering your community regardless of metro size. The Pyramid is the same shape just bigger in a bigger town/city.

Look for places that have the same Values as you feel you do and excel at.

An Average man will be average where ever he goes.
Average guy will be average yes. But your style, ethnicity, game, social circle etc...location is huge. a flashy, good looking ethnic guy will excel in Miami or a big city. In a small white suburb he might be intimidating to a lot of women. I had to tone my game down big time here, but when I went to the big cities for weekend trips (I travel a lot) I was successful
 

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Phoenix/Scottsdale has loads of quality women and the cost of living is still reasonable. Yeah it's hot but the women get super-horny and bored (too hot to do much outside) in the summertime here.
Oh yeah tons of hot women in Scottsdale just not my scene
 

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Average guy will be average yes. But your style, ethnicity, game, social circle etc...location is huge. a flashy, good looking ethnic guy will excel in Miami or a big city. In a small white suburb he might be intimidating to a lot of women. I had to tone my game down big time here, but when I went to the big cities for weekend trips (I travel a lot) I was successful
Did you ever go back to the store in your Maserati? What happened?
 

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Did you ever go back to the store in your Maserati? What happened?
Couldn’t get approved on a loan with $25,000 down. Credit not good enough. I just can’t justify putting 35k plus down on a car. I could always get a cheaper gibli I suppose but not interested
 

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Couldn’t get approved on a loan with $25,000 down. Credit not good enough. I just can’t justify putting 35k plus down on a car. I could always get a cheaper gibli I suppose but not interested
Aww man. I got 795 credit and over $500k in the bank. $1.7 million if you add up all the real estate. No mortgage on my $900k 8-bedroom house.

I drive a 10-year old Maxima cause I can't justify spending lots of money to get from A to B
 

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OP why do you care so much about having the “baddest chick on the planet?”

There is an inverse correlation between a woman’s looks and her character. Finding an HB8+ that is tolerable to deal with is like hitting the lottery.
 

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Phoenix/Scottsdale has loads of quality women and the cost of living is still reasonable. Yeah it's hot but the women get super-horny and bored (too hot to do much outside) in the summertime here.
Super pretentious attitudes there and a weak local economy. Good place to visit in winter but difficult to live there.

I've gamed everywhere and in my opinion Los Angeles is the toughest dating market to pull in. I am extremely thankful that I grew up there because it taught me the importance of aggressive game. I will say this again If you can pull a bad chick in los angeles you can pull a bad chick anywhere. When I relocated to a small town down south, I was shocked at how my closing rate became.

. Right now I am chasing greatness, ds. I'm 28 and not getting any younger. I am trying to lock down the ultimate, the creme of the croppe. She has to be a 9 plus.... I've been ****ing 8's since I was 23 when I was broke as ****...., its time to up the scale.

do I remain a big fish in a small pond, or do I leave these southern women behind and go compete for the baddest bitches on the planet to compete with the big boys for the baddest girls on the planet? I just don't see it being possible to develop a rotation of 4-5 9/10 pluses, if your not in a big city. The hottest chicks I've ****ed this year have all not been from my town they have been on weekend trips, that makes no ****ing sense. The only benefit to a small town is its a nice ego boost and can get your confidence back.
Stay where you are. When men leave small towns, they are usually leaving due to a lack of options. You're successful in your smaller town. I tend to think that a place of less than 150,000 population isn't good due to a lack of options, especially after age 25. However, once you get to areas of above 700-800k, competition becomes extremely fierce. You saw that in Los Angeles.
 

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NYC has it.

Think about how you want your life to be. What is a good day for you, and what is a bad day. What activities do you like to do often? Do you enjoy the social game; constantly... Do you want to be relaxed and feel safe.. Do you want the constant thrill of competition? Do you believe in God (just another thing to think of)?

The point is; figure out what you will be really happy with doing; if even alone or without a woman.

hmm.. move to Indiana and start a trucking company. You will own every woman in sight.
 
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