"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should I go for the kiss close

Pdizzzzzzle

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So basically here's the deal. This girl I went to middle school with went to an all girls school for high school. We kept in touch a little freshman year, but communications dropped off sophomore year. Suddenly, she asked me to her school's formal and I said I'd go. If the dance goes decently well should I kiss close?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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AlexParadox

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step 1:
read the DJ Bible: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

step 2:

shut up, and go for it.

step 2 alt. :
If your a newbie to the whole "getting girls" thing, go and have fun and don't bother trying if you are not confident enough. You will only embarrass yourself.
Because from what you just told me:
-you havent seen her for a long time
-she never liked you before
-your a newbie and only has one goal: to kiss her

im not the greatest at math, but this adds up to a failure and a follow up post titled:
I SCREWED UP, NEED HELP FAST

step 3
after what ever happened that night, do yourself a favor and print off/save a copy of the DJ bootcamp (located on same page as DJ bible) and try it out.

so that one day, you will look back and laugh at how unconfident you were, that you needed to ask if you should go in for a kiss.
 

Pdizzzzzzle

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AlexParadox said:
step 1:
read the DJ Bible: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

step 2:

shut up, and go for it.

step 2 alt. :
If your a newbie to the whole "getting girls" thing, go and have fun and don't bother trying if you are not confident enough. You will only embarrass yourself.
Because from what you just told me:
-you havent seen her for a long time
-she never liked you before
-your a newbie and only has one goal: to kiss her

im not the greatest at math, but this adds up to a failure and a follow up post titled:
I SCREWED UP, NEED HELP FAST

step 3
after what ever happened that night, do yourself a favor and print off/save a copy of the DJ bootcamp (located on same page as DJ bible) and try it out.

so that one day, you will look back and laugh at how unconfident you were, that you needed to ask if you should go in for a kiss.
thanks, ill do that
 
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You should absolutely try to kiss her. The only way you will become better with women is by ACTUALLY TRYING; you win some, you lose some, but it's the experience that stays with you. The DJ Bible will put you in the right frame of mind, but it won't get girls for you. Live and learn, brother.
 

intrextrovert

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Yes you should. It's obv she wants you to some degree (she invited you to a formal after all) and you will definitely get it.

A perfect opportunity won't come, so take it whenever you two get alone and close. If this doesn't happen first, wait until slow song, kiss her afterwards.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mpimpin

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An easy way to get to this point is strong eye contact especially during slow dances. When you get to the moment lean in and go for it. You will know the moment. Just don't think about it or hesitate. instant reaction

I used this back in HS when I was nervous or question myself. Out of about ten girls it failed one time and I ended up having to wait a a couple dates to finally kiss close.
 
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