"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I Go For It?

Ice882

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Hey guys, so I'm a junior in high school, and school just started today. However, I was an orientation leader during last week and I met this freshman girl who I toured around the school answering her questions and being C+F. She was pretty cute, and I'm pretty sure I could get with her if I actually went for it. I saw her in the hall today and she gave me the sexy eyes and a sly smile Thing is, she's a freshman....like 14 or 15, and I just turned 17 yesterday.

Should I go for this freshman girl? She's like an 8. Responses please!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If its legal in your state, yes.

Regret is worse then rejection. Live by that 1000%. (Registering as a sex offender cause her parents didn't like you is worse then regret) 10,000%.

Where do you live?
 

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scrouds said:
If its legal in your state, yes.

MA? I don't know. I feel like its not-- I think consent is 16. But its different if you're the same age or one year apart....which we're not but anyway I don't think it'd be an issue unless it was actually rape or reported by her parents or something. I don't believe it would be an issue as long as she consented and her parents didn't find out....

anyone else have an opinion on whether or not I should go for this?
 

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Would it matter if I said yes or no? Do you want other people telling you what to think or do? If you like her and want to go for it.. Then go for it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ice882

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Would it matter if I said yes or no? Do you want other people telling you what to think or do? If you like her and want to go for it.. Then go for it.
By that logic everyone would ignore all advice forever. You can't do that if you want to succeed. There is unlimited knowledge in this world, and one person can only learn so much of it "by doing". There are things that must be taught.

I'm asking if anyone sees any potential consequences, i.e.

- my losing standing at the school for getting with a freshman

- some sort of sexual assault law (a stupid one, I wouldn't ever rape)

etc.
 

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Go for what you want

When I was in high school - all of us senior guys were hanging out with freshman girls.

They were damn cute

I understand that you are *concerned* about how others view this - but again, if you are comfortable and cool with it yourself, then you can *pull it off*
 

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From my experience, if your a junior and your trying to get with a freshman, thats perfectly fine, just as long as shes good looking (you say shes an 8). Dont worry about what other people think such as "losing your standard". If anyone gives you crap or says something, just say back "Dude I dont care I think shes mad hot".

And dont get hung up on the sexual assault thing.

And take scrouds advice. Regret is much worse than rejection. Your in highschool man, just fvcking go for it!
 

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Alright I'm going for it. Let's get pumped BOYS.

Regret is so much worse than rejection, so true.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ice882 said:
By that logic everyone would ignore all advice forever. You can't do that if you want to succeed. There is unlimited knowledge in this world, and one person can only learn so much of it "by doing". There are things that must be taught.
But, in the end YOU choose the final decision. Thats the beauty of your own freedom. You can do what you want. Advice is just re-assurance to what you are already thinking... (most the time.)
 
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