“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Should I give up this fantasy?

rhcp83

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I've always had this fantasy of banging what I consider a "really hot girl" that wouldn't necessarily be relationship material. Even when I've dated other women that I liked, I still had that fantasy in the back of my mind.

You know the type I'm talking about...the blonde with the curvy butt and big tits that oozes sex appeal.

I don't have a problem attracting attractive/pretty/cute/hot women...but have never even been so much as checked out once by this type of woman...the "would turn your 70 year old grandfather's eyes" high maintenance type.

I'm wondering if I should just give up this fantasy. I'm 6 1, keep myself in shape, but I have a really average looking face that is also kind of dorky/nerdy, and my personality is similar (which women don't mind, but I get the impression those type of women would.)

I don't want any made up stories or exaggerations of a woman's hotness from guys on this board...I'm just wondering if you can be the type of guy I am and land a girl like this in bed?

I feel this is something I'd like to experience, even if once, and even in the future if I had another girlfriend my type who I liked blah blah blah but didn't have that sex appeal, part of me would still wonder what it was like to be with that type of woman.

It seems I always see these women (legit natural 9/10s) with other 9/10s, guys with money, or extremely muscular guys/men in uniform types. Is there any way to "game" a girl like this while being (in her eyes) an average guy? Maybe pretend to be rich? (I look good in a suit.)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vice

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Your fantasy seems to be a victim of what society considers to be highly "attractive", therefore you don't think you're worthy of it because of your preconceived notions of what you think attracts these women.

Personally, I can't stand the type of women that you have a fantasy about, and would use them as pivots and wing girls to get the ones that I want.
 

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judging by how whiny and needy your post is, you don't deserve a girl like that. fantasizing about girls is stupid. step your game up and just holla at them until u get inside them. just dont talk to her about the chili peppers, hot girls rarely appreciate john frusciantes tasty guitar playing.
 

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Vice said:
Your fantasy seems to be a victim of what society considers to be highly "attractive", therefore you don't think you're worthy of it because of your preconceived notions of what you think attracts these women.

Personally, I can't stand the type of women that you have a fantasy about, and would use them as pivots and wing girls to get the ones that I want.
you cant stand women with big butts and fat tits? real talk?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If this is actually what you want you can do it. You might have to switch up your look, approach more, etc... But you can do it. I don't really see why you _need_ to, but don't tell yourself you can't. **** that.
 

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you are 6'1 - you can achive anything! ! .. I would give anything to be that height ..
 
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