Should I give up this fantasy?

[rhcp83]

I've always had this fantasy of banging what I consider a "really hot girl" that wouldn't necessarily be relationship material. Even when I've dated other women that I liked, I still had that fantasy in the back of my mind.

You know the type I'm talking about...the blonde with the curvy butt and big tits that oozes sex appeal.

I don't have a problem attracting attractive/pretty/cute/hot women...but have never even been so much as checked out once by this type of woman...the "would turn your 70 year old grandfather's eyes" high maintenance type.

I'm wondering if I should just give up this fantasy. I'm 6 1, keep myself in shape, but I have a really average looking face that is also kind of dorky/nerdy, and my personality is similar (which women don't mind, but I get the impression those type of women would.)

I don't want any made up stories or exaggerations of a woman's hotness from guys on this board...I'm just wondering if you can be the type of guy I am and land a girl like this in bed?

I feel this is something I'd like to experience, even if once, and even in the future if I had another girlfriend my type who I liked blah blah blah but didn't have that sex appeal, part of me would still wonder what it was like to be with that type of woman.

It seems I always see these women (legit natural 9/10s) with other 9/10s, guys with money, or extremely muscular guys/men in uniform types. Is there any way to "game" a girl like this while being (in her eyes) an average guy? Maybe pretend to be rich? (I look good in a suit.)

 

[Vice]

Your fantasy seems to be a victim of what society considers to be highly "attractive", therefore you don't think you're worthy of it because of your preconceived notions of what you think attracts these women.

Personally, I can't stand the type of women that you have a fantasy about, and would use them as pivots and wing girls to get the ones that I want.

 

[oxford comma]

judging by how whiny and needy your post is, you don't deserve a girl like that. fantasizing about girls is stupid. step your game up and just holla at them until u get inside them. just dont talk to her about the chili peppers, hot girls rarely appreciate john frusciantes tasty guitar playing.

 

[oxford comma]

Your fantasy seems to be a victim of what society considers to be highly "attractive", therefore you don't think you're worthy of it because of your preconceived notions of what you think attracts these women.

Personally, I can't stand the type of women that you have a fantasy about, and would use them as pivots and wing girls to get the ones that I want.

you cant stand women with big butts and fat tits? real talk?

 

[vatoloco]

you cant stand women with big butts and fat tits? real talk?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ImZTwYwCug

 

[handle]

If this is actually what you want you can do it. You might have to switch up your look, approach more, etc... But you can do it. I don't really see why you _need_ to, but don't tell yourself you can't. **** that.

 

[European-DJ]

you are 6'1 - you can achive anything! ! .. I would give anything to be that height ..