"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Should i give her a chance?

gruby

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Meet this pretty French girl through my work. Lots of eye contact, some flirting, not much talk as i was busy. At the end of 3 day shoot asked for the number. SHe gave it to me. I knew she was going to shoot for next 1.5 week meaning she'll be exhausted to do anything. So i told her i'll call her after the mayhem is over. I called her, she didn't pick up. Was suprised as i detected really high IL, 2 days later i called again and left her a message.

Nothing. I nexted her.

Today (a week from that call) i was helping out a friend and ran in her. She was very apologetic for not calling as she was really busy (might as well but i think she should've called anyway) and promised to call after things calm down after Thanksgiving.

Well...? My IL already went down as she didn't call.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pancho84

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next her. Only open up if she obviously opens up. show up with more women. show her who's in control here and whose loss it is..
 

Kaine

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Stop chasing her until she calls back.

If she does, great! The ball is in your court. Go out with her and show her a great time.

Just move on in the meantime and don't expect anything from her.
 

Chemistry

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Like you said your IL has gone down... or has it really?

If you're questioning whether you should let this girl back in on some might as well do tip then your IL is still where it's at before, you're just trying to incorporate some of the general principles from this board into the situation, without really wanting to next her...

Lets see if she calls... in the meantime occupy yourself with something else and forget her... if you still have IL in this girl at that point, then you might as well see what becomes of this...

As far as picking up goes or missing the call deliberately so you can call her back, there isn't a great deal of weight in either what will be crucial in converting this to somethin is going to be how you handle yourself on the phone... I would go into it but I'll assume you know, and if not then I'm sure it's all in the DJ Bible somewhere
 

Blue Phoenix

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I think this girl has some screws loose in her head!

She's Low interest level. It's not worth!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gruby

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Yeah, while chiling with other girls i might as well give her a chance althou again what concerns me is that my IL went down and i might have hard time presenting it as high to her.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I could never understand guys that get enough 'open' signals from women that they ask for a number but yet when they get it, they wait so long to call, the woman looses interest!!! What the fvck gives???!!!:confused:
 
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