Tricky situation here, I like this girl with a bf. I'm pretty sure she likes me; she's always hugging me, throwing me these looks, plus the fact that she likes talking to me and told me she finds me attractive. But the question isn't about whether or not she likes me, as long as she has a bf I'm not gonna make a move on her. The question I want answered is should I approach and flirt with other girls in front of her (we go clubbing together occasionally). I ask because I want to give her hints that I like her but if she sees me flirting with other girls she might think I do that with every girl (which I do, I'm kind of a flirt). Is there anyway I can approach other girls and still let her know that she's different from them (ie. I actually like her; and no I'm not gonna tell her, that's probably not a good idea). Thanks.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Should I flirt with girls in front of the one I like
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It could go both ways
On one hand she might bet jealous. But she already has a bf, so her Needs are being met by him. You might not be important enough to garner such reaction
Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
Go with your gut.
On one hand she might bet jealous. But she already has a bf, so her Needs are being met by him. You might not be important enough to garner such reaction
Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
Go with your gut.
this is what I'm afraid of what would happen, I'm trying to get to know her better but I still like flirting and getting numbers from girls at clubs (it's fun, a boost to my ego, and kind of a game). I guess the perfect solution would be to not flirt with other girls while around her.Ganondorf said:Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kal0051 said:this is what I'm afraid of what would happen, I'm trying to get to know her better but I still like flirting and getting numbers from girls at clubs (it's fun, a boost to my ego, and kind of a game). I guess the perfect solution would be to not flirt with other girls while around her.
Lol well, you are not dating her. don't forget that
I apologize. I might have been over thinking things in my previous post
but you are single, and she has a bf. so it really wouldn't be wrong to flirt with other girls, even when she's around
You guys ain't engage or anything lol so i don't think it would hurt
I guess what i meant was, don't do it because you feel like it will make her like you more, because it might not, but do do it if that's what you like. Have fun with it, she's not your wife
Your single, so enjoy it lol
lol, I'm not saying it's wrong for me to flirt with other girls, obviously I'm allowed since I'm single. I just don't want her lose interest in me because she might think I just flirt with every girl I see. And yeah I do enjoy flirting with girls, I have no expectation that it will make her like me more (I hate girls who try to make me jealous so I like them more...) but if it does happen then that's just a bonus. I guess I'm worrying about nothing.
lol i'd say soKal0051 said:l I guess I'm worrying about nothing.