Tricky situation here, I like this girl with a bf. I'm pretty sure she likes me; she's always hugging me, throwing me these looks, plus the fact that she likes talking to me and told me she finds me attractive. But the question isn't about whether or not she likes me, as long as she has a bf I'm not gonna make a move on her. The question I want answered is should I approach and flirt with other girls in front of her (we go clubbing together occasionally). I ask because I want to give her hints that I like her but if she sees me flirting with other girls she might think I do that with every girl (which I do, I'm kind of a flirt). Is there anyway I can approach other girls and still let her know that she's different from them (ie. I actually like her; and no I'm not gonna tell her, that's probably not a good idea). Thanks.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Should I flirt with girls in front of the one I like
- Thread starter Kal0051
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It could go both ways
On one hand she might bet jealous. But she already has a bf, so her Needs are being met by him. You might not be important enough to garner such reaction
Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
Go with your gut.
On one hand she might bet jealous. But she already has a bf, so her Needs are being met by him. You might not be important enough to garner such reaction
Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
Go with your gut.
this is what I'm afraid of what would happen, I'm trying to get to know her better but I still like flirting and getting numbers from girls at clubs (it's fun, a boost to my ego, and kind of a game). I guess the perfect solution would be to not flirt with other girls while around her.Ganondorf said:Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kal0051 said:this is what I'm afraid of what would happen, I'm trying to get to know her better but I still like flirting and getting numbers from girls at clubs (it's fun, a boost to my ego, and kind of a game). I guess the perfect solution would be to not flirt with other girls while around her.
Lol well, you are not dating her. don't forget that
I apologize. I might have been over thinking things in my previous post
but you are single, and she has a bf. so it really wouldn't be wrong to flirt with other girls, even when she's around
You guys ain't engage or anything lol so i don't think it would hurt
I guess what i meant was, don't do it because you feel like it will make her like you more, because it might not, but do do it if that's what you like. Have fun with it, she's not your wife
Your single, so enjoy it lol
lol, I'm not saying it's wrong for me to flirt with other girls, obviously I'm allowed since I'm single. I just don't want her lose interest in me because she might think I just flirt with every girl I see. And yeah I do enjoy flirting with girls, I have no expectation that it will make her like me more (I hate girls who try to make me jealous so I like them more...) but if it does happen then that's just a bonus. I guess I'm worrying about nothing.
lol i'd say soKal0051 said:l I guess I'm worrying about nothing.