Tricky situation here, I like this girl with a bf. I'm pretty sure she likes me; she's always hugging me, throwing me these looks, plus the fact that she likes talking to me and told me she finds me attractive. But the question isn't about whether or not she likes me, as long as she has a bf I'm not gonna make a move on her. The question I want answered is should I approach and flirt with other girls in front of her (we go clubbing together occasionally). I ask because I want to give her hints that I like her but if she sees me flirting with other girls she might think I do that with every girl (which I do, I'm kind of a flirt). Is there anyway I can approach other girls and still let her know that she's different from them (ie. I actually like her; and no I'm not gonna tell her, that's probably not a good idea). Thanks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Should I flirt with girls in front of the one I like
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It could go both ways
On one hand she might bet jealous. But she already has a bf, so her Needs are being met by him. You might not be important enough to garner such reaction
Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
Go with your gut.
On one hand she might bet jealous. But she already has a bf, so her Needs are being met by him. You might not be important enough to garner such reaction
Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
Go with your gut.
this is what I'm afraid of what would happen, I'm trying to get to know her better but I still like flirting and getting numbers from girls at clubs (it's fun, a boost to my ego, and kind of a game). I guess the perfect solution would be to not flirt with other girls while around her.Ganondorf said:Or on the other hand, you come of as just a flirt who flirts with every girl.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kal0051 said:this is what I'm afraid of what would happen, I'm trying to get to know her better but I still like flirting and getting numbers from girls at clubs (it's fun, a boost to my ego, and kind of a game). I guess the perfect solution would be to not flirt with other girls while around her.
Lol well, you are not dating her. don't forget that
I apologize. I might have been over thinking things in my previous post
but you are single, and she has a bf. so it really wouldn't be wrong to flirt with other girls, even when she's around
You guys ain't engage or anything lol so i don't think it would hurt
I guess what i meant was, don't do it because you feel like it will make her like you more, because it might not, but do do it if that's what you like. Have fun with it, she's not your wife
Your single, so enjoy it lol
lol, I'm not saying it's wrong for me to flirt with other girls, obviously I'm allowed since I'm single. I just don't want her lose interest in me because she might think I just flirt with every girl I see. And yeah I do enjoy flirting with girls, I have no expectation that it will make her like me more (I hate girls who try to make me jealous so I like them more...) but if it does happen then that's just a bonus. I guess I'm worrying about nothing.
lol i'd say soKal0051 said:l I guess I'm worrying about nothing.