"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got a message on POF 15 minutes before the date from this Aussie chick saying that she was still at the gym. And that she had expected I would send a confirmation text.

I replied that I don't confirm I just do what I say I'm going to do.

Bottom line is that I've agreed to her being half an hour late for the date. I find the whole thing a bit disrespectful and frankly bloody typical of your modern euro woman. And Aussie girls aren't my favourite flavour. Only got 15 minutes to decide.

I'm wondering if I should just stand her up.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Waste of time. She turned up sick. And had 2 kids she d 'forgotten' to mention. Sat perched on the edge of the couch for the whole bloody date. And said she didn't drink just for fun. This is the second annoying chick I've had recently that said she didn't drink. Next one the dates over on the spot. Excused myself after 30 minutes while she was in mid story. I could see the smoke from the Hamster Wheel. Next.
 
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The look on her face when you left would have been a sight to see. But what else can you expect from POF?
 
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I had a situation similar to this from a tinder girl. We set the date at 5 30. I told her that I had an appointment at 7 30.

So I get to the bar and text her that I have a table. She calls me tells me she will be there at 6 30. Tries to gaslight me and say that's what we agreed to. I told her some other time as she apologized.

My appointment was another date. It went ok but i wasnt that enthused about it. At least she was on time.
 
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@dustmuffin on tinder at our age. You re a disgrace. ...and a legend ;-). and OMG an American chick rang me up yesterday. I have no idea where these threads come from about what to say to girls she just wouldn't shut up. And she seemed to be able to throw out multiple s*** tests without pause. We're meant to be going out on a date next Saturday. I will definitely give this one a strict hour slot. Also showed signs of baked in feminism 1 flash of that and I'm out the door.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ubercat said:
@dustmuffin on tinder at our age. You re a disgrace. ...and a legend ;-). and OMG an American chick rang me up yesterday. I have no idea where these threads come from about what to say to girls she just wouldn't shut up. And she seemed to be able to throw out multiple s*** tests without pause. We're meant to be going out on a date next Saturday. I will definitely give this one a strict hour slot.
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it's pof bro, are you expecting someone who's not fvcked in the head? lol
 
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30 minsis admirable for a pof girl

My strategy when they show early disrespectful is to definitely continue the original planned date and make it a mission to bang her that night and then immediately either put your pants on, get up and leave or tell her she has to go because a friend just texted u he's in trouble and needs your help.

Pump and dump is extra fun with disrespectful online chicks.
 
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