"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I explain myself to this girl

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Hey guys, I was friendzoned by a girl about 3 months ago after which I went No Contact. She calls me 2 days ago asking to meet up with me. I tell her to meet me on friday evening. We meet up have some small talk and she keeps asking if I have a gf now to which I just smiled.

About 15 minutes into the meet, I get a phone call from and had to leave immediately. While I was leaving, she asked me again if I had a gf now, to which I replied: I did ask a girl out 3 months ago but she wasn't interested (obv. referring to her) and smiled and left. Now she didn't get the joke and actually thinks I was rejected by someone else.

Should I clarify (that I was referring to her) coz it kind of puts me in a bad light and I dont want that. She was showing a lot of interest before this.

Edit: Sorry didn't introduce myself: Long time lurker and a big fan of the DJ bible and this site :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fly By Night

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She's an idiot... And I wouldn't clarify it to her because she is already showing you that her interest in you is coming back up. Saying that it was her will probably only backfire for you since she will assume that other girls are not finding you attractive. The ball is in your court. Try again or next it.
 
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No explanation needed, sometimes people show their value by how well they understand social interaction. See where it takes you, carry on.
 
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I was thinking of going the same way, just needed some validation I guess. Thanks a lot guys :)
 
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Shoulda said you were taking applications. Do you plan to see her again? What is your next step Don Juan?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She's already interested and wants to meet again. We'll see how it goes although Im pretty sure it'll end well but even if it doesn't, Its not like I have something to lose here.
 
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