"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should I date women who have kids

WestCoaster

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It's simple ...

... if you want to date a woman with kids, do, enjoy her and her kid or kids. If you don't want to date a woman with kids, don't.

Glide through life with a smile on your face and confidence in your heart. Smile at cute women, average women, fat women, thin women, white women, black women, old women, young women, single moms, married moms, etc.

Act like you're the prize at all times, despite the psychoness of women, enjoy the beauty they bring to the world and if one comes into your life with kids, enjoy her for who she is. If it doesn't work out, move on. If kids aren't the thing for you, date a woman without kids. Know your likes and dislikes.

If you set up too many barriers and restictions in your life, you'll end up lonely.

Have fun and smile at women, and if they don't smile back, it's their loss.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hartwell

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there are so many single women with kids and why are they having them? There has to be a reason why. It all can't be positive, they are stereotyped for good reason. Back in the day you could find a single woman with no kids with a good attitude, now all you see is woman with children be it divorced or whatever. This trend definetly needs to stop.
 

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If you set up too many barriers and restictions in your life, you'll end up lonely.

all it take is one screw up by a man and he is dead meat. In the day of age of the single mother , feminist and the courts showing no mercy to men being lonely might not be a bad choice. You can't blame men for being restrictive these days and besides who is on his side or have his back when things go astray. Like Tupac said "Its me against the world"
 

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Originally posted by hartwell
all it take is one screw up by a man and he is dead meat. In the day of age of the single mother , feminist and the courts showing no mercy to men being lonely might not be a bad choice. You can't blame men for being restrictive these days and besides who is on his side or have his back when things go astray. Like Tupac said "Its me against the world"
And all of this can be avoided (most of the time) by a stupid piece of latex.
 

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And all of this can be avoided (most of the time) by a stupid piece of latex.


true, but bring your own condoms don't use hers and the safe bet is to staw away from single mothers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nightwing

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Re: It's simple ...

Originally posted by WestCoaster
... if you want to date a woman with kids, do, enjoy her and her kid or kids. If you don't want to date a woman with kids, don't.

Glide through life with a smile on your face and confidence in your heart. Smile at cute women, average women, fat women, thin women, white women, black women, old women, young women, single moms, married moms, etc.

Act like you're the prize at all times, despite the psychoness of women, enjoy the beauty they bring to the world and if one comes into your life with kids, enjoy her for who she is. If it doesn't work out, move on. If kids aren't the thing for you, date a woman without kids. Know your likes and dislikes.

If you set up too many barriers and restictions in your life, you'll end up lonely.

Have fun and smile at women, and if they don't smile back, it's their loss.
I just think that you simply shouldn't mess with someone with more problems with more problems that you have. Single mothers, in general, typically have LOTS of problems happening in thier life.

At least that's a general rule that I follow.
 

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Originally posted by hartwell
And all of this can be avoided (most of the time) by a stupid piece of latex.


true, but bring your own condoms don't use hers and the safe bet is to staw away from single mothers


single mothers seem to be in abudant supply compare to oil :rolleyes: I can't avoid them even if I walk with my eyes closed.

I found this red head at work who is a real hotty. I did a little PI work and found out that she is single mother with 2kids. :nervous: I just freak out when I heard the news. Where are all the single women???
 
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