"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I date women who have kids

WestCoaster

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It's simple ...

... if you want to date a woman with kids, do, enjoy her and her kid or kids. If you don't want to date a woman with kids, don't.

Glide through life with a smile on your face and confidence in your heart. Smile at cute women, average women, fat women, thin women, white women, black women, old women, young women, single moms, married moms, etc.

Act like you're the prize at all times, despite the psychoness of women, enjoy the beauty they bring to the world and if one comes into your life with kids, enjoy her for who she is. If it doesn't work out, move on. If kids aren't the thing for you, date a woman without kids. Know your likes and dislikes.

If you set up too many barriers and restictions in your life, you'll end up lonely.

Have fun and smile at women, and if they don't smile back, it's their loss.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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there are so many single women with kids and why are they having them? There has to be a reason why. It all can't be positive, they are stereotyped for good reason. Back in the day you could find a single woman with no kids with a good attitude, now all you see is woman with children be it divorced or whatever. This trend definetly needs to stop.
 

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If you set up too many barriers and restictions in your life, you'll end up lonely.

all it take is one screw up by a man and he is dead meat. In the day of age of the single mother , feminist and the courts showing no mercy to men being lonely might not be a bad choice. You can't blame men for being restrictive these days and besides who is on his side or have his back when things go astray. Like Tupac said "Its me against the world"
 

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Originally posted by hartwell
all it take is one screw up by a man and he is dead meat. In the day of age of the single mother , feminist and the courts showing no mercy to men being lonely might not be a bad choice. You can't blame men for being restrictive these days and besides who is on his side or have his back when things go astray. Like Tupac said "Its me against the world"
And all of this can be avoided (most of the time) by a stupid piece of latex.
 

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And all of this can be avoided (most of the time) by a stupid piece of latex.


true, but bring your own condoms don't use hers and the safe bet is to staw away from single mothers
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nightwing

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Re: It's simple ...

Originally posted by WestCoaster
... if you want to date a woman with kids, do, enjoy her and her kid or kids. If you don't want to date a woman with kids, don't.

Glide through life with a smile on your face and confidence in your heart. Smile at cute women, average women, fat women, thin women, white women, black women, old women, young women, single moms, married moms, etc.

Act like you're the prize at all times, despite the psychoness of women, enjoy the beauty they bring to the world and if one comes into your life with kids, enjoy her for who she is. If it doesn't work out, move on. If kids aren't the thing for you, date a woman without kids. Know your likes and dislikes.

If you set up too many barriers and restictions in your life, you'll end up lonely.

Have fun and smile at women, and if they don't smile back, it's their loss.
I just think that you simply shouldn't mess with someone with more problems with more problems that you have. Single mothers, in general, typically have LOTS of problems happening in thier life.

At least that's a general rule that I follow.
 

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Originally posted by hartwell
And all of this can be avoided (most of the time) by a stupid piece of latex.


true, but bring your own condoms don't use hers and the safe bet is to staw away from single mothers


single mothers seem to be in abudant supply compare to oil :rolleyes: I can't avoid them even if I walk with my eyes closed.

I found this red head at work who is a real hotty. I did a little PI work and found out that she is single mother with 2kids. :nervous: I just freak out when I heard the news. Where are all the single women???
 
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