"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I date a girl who is graduating from college this spring? I'm 20, she's 22.

cluelessasian

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Ok, long story short, need some DJ advice here:

I got to know this wonderful lady
I am third year in university,
she is fourth year, graduating this may,

i click with her really well: for example, she would touch my arm/hand whenever she talks to me. Or when I show something to her on my laptop, she would lean really close on me.

I think she is 22, should i go for it and try dating her? I have no experience with dating at all, thats why i am here for help :) Especially with this age difference.

I read the bible btw! So i didn't appear like a desparate fool!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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do you mind dating an older person? if not, go for it. besides it isn't a big difference. My brother's 16 and his gf is 18.... they enjoy each others presence and have fun. The age difference isn't a huge deal.
 

cluelessasian

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i dont mind at all, actually i like older ladies :)

but the thing is, she will be leaving university soon while i still have another 1.5 year to go :(
 

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what do you want us to tell you?

To be honest, I dont see the problem here...if you want to 'date' her, well, then DATE HER!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Re: Should I date a girl who is graduating from college this spring? I'm 20, she's 22

Originally posted by cluelessasian
I have no experience with dating at all,
Then its the perfect opportunity to get some...

Lets be real, the situation isn't really relevant... its highly unlikely you'll go on to marry this girl but that's no reason not to fvck her brains out in the meantime, have some good times, and see what you get out of it!
 

Don_Joffe

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If a guy gets an older woman, thats points for you. GO FOR IT, some girls dont mind just see what kind of girl she is first.
 
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