"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I date a girl who is graduating from college this spring? I'm 20, she's 22.

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cluelessasian

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Ok, long story short, need some DJ advice here:

I got to know this wonderful lady
I am third year in university,
she is fourth year, graduating this may,

i click with her really well: for example, she would touch my arm/hand whenever she talks to me. Or when I show something to her on my laptop, she would lean really close on me.

I think she is 22, should i go for it and try dating her? I have no experience with dating at all, thats why i am here for help :) Especially with this age difference.

I read the bible btw! So i didn't appear like a desparate fool!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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omizzi

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do you mind dating an older person? if not, go for it. besides it isn't a big difference. My brother's 16 and his gf is 18.... they enjoy each others presence and have fun. The age difference isn't a huge deal.
 
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cluelessasian

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i dont mind at all, actually i like older ladies :)

but the thing is, she will be leaving university soon while i still have another 1.5 year to go :(
 
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Centaurion

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what do you want us to tell you?

To be honest, I dont see the problem here...if you want to 'date' her, well, then DATE HER!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Re: Should I date a girl who is graduating from college this spring? I'm 20, she's 22

Originally posted by cluelessasian
I have no experience with dating at all,
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Then its the perfect opportunity to get some...

Lets be real, the situation isn't really relevant... its highly unlikely you'll go on to marry this girl but that's no reason not to fvck her brains out in the meantime, have some good times, and see what you get out of it!
 
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If a guy gets an older woman, thats points for you. GO FOR IT, some girls dont mind just see what kind of girl she is first.
 
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