“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Should I date a girl who is graduating from college this spring? I'm 20, she's 22.

cluelessasian

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Ok, long story short, need some DJ advice here:

I got to know this wonderful lady
I am third year in university,
she is fourth year, graduating this may,

i click with her really well: for example, she would touch my arm/hand whenever she talks to me. Or when I show something to her on my laptop, she would lean really close on me.

I think she is 22, should i go for it and try dating her? I have no experience with dating at all, thats why i am here for help :) Especially with this age difference.

I read the bible btw! So i didn't appear like a desparate fool!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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omizzi

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do you mind dating an older person? if not, go for it. besides it isn't a big difference. My brother's 16 and his gf is 18.... they enjoy each others presence and have fun. The age difference isn't a huge deal.
 

cluelessasian

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i dont mind at all, actually i like older ladies :)

but the thing is, she will be leaving university soon while i still have another 1.5 year to go :(
 

Centaurion

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what do you want us to tell you?

To be honest, I dont see the problem here...if you want to 'date' her, well, then DATE HER!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Should I date a girl who is graduating from college this spring? I'm 20, she's 22

Originally posted by cluelessasian
I have no experience with dating at all,
Then its the perfect opportunity to get some...

Lets be real, the situation isn't really relevant... its highly unlikely you'll go on to marry this girl but that's no reason not to fvck her brains out in the meantime, have some good times, and see what you get out of it!
 

Don_Joffe

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If a guy gets an older woman, thats points for you. GO FOR IT, some girls dont mind just see what kind of girl she is first.
 
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