"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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progressive1

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Im in the military and my neighber's boyfriend is stationd overseas for 6+ months. She is very aggressive and flirty with everyone. Some nights she even sleeps in my room. There is more than just sleeping going on too. HINT Hint. I usually ask her what her boyfrined would think and she never gives me an answer. She continues to to be seductive. Two days in a row she knocks on the door right after im in the shower. She asks me if she could get in the shower wit me next time. I wouldnt have a problem but she isnt my girl. I can have her any time i want but should i continue to creep wit her or leave her alone? Someone help me because I my mind is saying no but my third leg is telling me yes.
 

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She asks me if she could get in the shower wit me next time. I wouldnt have a problem but she isnt my girl
This part suggests that you feel guilty of being intimate with her.

However...

Some nights she even sleeps in my room. There is more than just sleeping going on too. HINT Hint.
This if i'm reading it right, contradicts your guilt feelings.

You need to expand on what you're saying. Do you feel worried that you'll grow feelings for her? If a fvck buddy is all you're looking for than i say just go for it, but i wouldn't pursue a relationship with this girl.
 

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I say your doing your friend a favor. And almost all military girlfriends cheat. WOmen need attention, and if the guy is gone for 6 months, what does he expect. And do you think he's over there strokin it to pictures of her? You just keepin it warm for him.
 

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do you not have any other girls you can go for instead?
 

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i have other girls but not near me like my neighbor is. My neighbr and i are literally walls apart from each other. I ignore her most times. I never act needy around her. I treat her like a normal person. This causes her to be even more agressive sometimes. i do feel guilty 40% of the time. on the scale of 1 to ten, she is probaly a 6.5. I forgot to add that she even wants to go on vacation with me next summer. Just me and her. She tells me all the time not to forget about the vacation. I usually ignore her.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

progressive1

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i have other girls but my neighbr and i are literally walls apart. I ignore her most times. I never act needy around her. I treat her like a normal person. This causes her to be even more agressive.
 
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