"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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progressive1

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Im in the military and my neighber's boyfriend is stationd overseas for 6+ months. She is very aggressive and flirty with everyone. Some nights she even sleeps in my room. There is more than just sleeping going on too. HINT Hint. I usually ask her what her boyfrined would think and she never gives me an answer. She continues to to be seductive. Two days in a row she knocks on the door right after im in the shower. She asks me if she could get in the shower wit me next time. I wouldnt have a problem but she isnt my girl. I can have her any time i want but should i continue to creep wit her or leave her alone? Someone help me because I my mind is saying no but my third leg is telling me yes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She asks me if she could get in the shower wit me next time. I wouldnt have a problem but she isnt my girl
This part suggests that you feel guilty of being intimate with her.

However...

Some nights she even sleeps in my room. There is more than just sleeping going on too. HINT Hint.
This if i'm reading it right, contradicts your guilt feelings.

You need to expand on what you're saying. Do you feel worried that you'll grow feelings for her? If a fvck buddy is all you're looking for than i say just go for it, but i wouldn't pursue a relationship with this girl.
 

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I say your doing your friend a favor. And almost all military girlfriends cheat. WOmen need attention, and if the guy is gone for 6 months, what does he expect. And do you think he's over there strokin it to pictures of her? You just keepin it warm for him.
 

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do you not have any other girls you can go for instead?
 

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i have other girls but not near me like my neighbor is. My neighbr and i are literally walls apart from each other. I ignore her most times. I never act needy around her. I treat her like a normal person. This causes her to be even more agressive sometimes. i do feel guilty 40% of the time. on the scale of 1 to ten, she is probaly a 6.5. I forgot to add that she even wants to go on vacation with me next summer. Just me and her. She tells me all the time not to forget about the vacation. I usually ignore her.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i have other girls but my neighbr and i are literally walls apart. I ignore her most times. I never act needy around her. I treat her like a normal person. This causes her to be even more agressive.
 
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