marmel75
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You are simply in denial at this point. Responding to a message is a long long way from wanting to suck your c0ck or even going on a date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Should I call this girl out?
- Thread starter TheFixer14
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
TheFixer14
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You're acting like interest is like a light switch. That isn't how it works.
Doesn't matter. I need to focus on more important **** anyway.
The Diver
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This is exactly how it's work: She can like you today and resent you tomorrow, B'cos you triggered some short circuit in her brain, or for any fvcikg reson.
But hey, as you said, concentrate on what is really important to you know (I'm not sarcastic, I mean it)
TheFixer14
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I would say interest is more of a scale. If it's 5 and up, you stand a chance. If it's below 5, you're done.
All I know is that just chasing tail and getting ONS never made me happy. Of course that's something that I will do again. But, it can be a strong ass distraction. Being on your purpose has to be #1 and women are good at knocking you off of it.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
calling her out won't help, if you just wanna vent go for it but it won't accomplish anything positive, unless she was looking to be yelled at and put in her place (which would probably scream damaged girl with severe daddy issues)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheFixer14
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I called her out. It helped me. At least she knows that I am done with her games.