marmel75
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You are simply in denial at this point. Responding to a message is a long long way from wanting to suck your c0ck or even going on a date
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Should I call this girl out?
- Thread starter TheFixer14
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheFixer14
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You're acting like interest is like a light switch. That isn't how it works.
Doesn't matter. I need to focus on more important **** anyway.
The Diver
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This is exactly how it's work: She can like you today and resent you tomorrow, B'cos you triggered some short circuit in her brain, or for any fvcikg reson.
But hey, as you said, concentrate on what is really important to you know (I'm not sarcastic, I mean it)
TheFixer14
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I would say interest is more of a scale. If it's 5 and up, you stand a chance. If it's below 5, you're done.
All I know is that just chasing tail and getting ONS never made me happy. Of course that's something that I will do again. But, it can be a strong ass distraction. Being on your purpose has to be #1 and women are good at knocking you off of it.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
calling her out won't help, if you just wanna vent go for it but it won't accomplish anything positive, unless she was looking to be yelled at and put in her place (which would probably scream damaged girl with severe daddy issues)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheFixer14
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I called her out. It helped me. At least she knows that I am done with her games.