marmel75
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You are simply in denial at this point. Responding to a message is a long long way from wanting to suck your c0ck or even going on a date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Should I call this girl out?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TheFixer14
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You're acting like interest is like a light switch. That isn't how it works.
Doesn't matter. I need to focus on more important **** anyway.
The Diver
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This is exactly how it's work: She can like you today and resent you tomorrow, B'cos you triggered some short circuit in her brain, or for any fvcikg reson.
But hey, as you said, concentrate on what is really important to you know (I'm not sarcastic, I mean it)
TheFixer14
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I would say interest is more of a scale. If it's 5 and up, you stand a chance. If it's below 5, you're done.
All I know is that just chasing tail and getting ONS never made me happy. Of course that's something that I will do again. But, it can be a strong ass distraction. Being on your purpose has to be #1 and women are good at knocking you off of it.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
calling her out won't help, if you just wanna vent go for it but it won't accomplish anything positive, unless she was looking to be yelled at and put in her place (which would probably scream damaged girl with severe daddy issues)
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TheFixer14
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I called her out. It helped me. At least she knows that I am done with her games.