"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I call her?

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Alright so their was this girl who I easily could of hooked up with 1-2 months ago but basically I was being a little ***** and didn't make a move at a party.

I left for college 2 days later and we kind of just stopped talking except for the odd snapchat and when I got a new phone and she texted me so I had her number.

Do you guys think I should call her and ask her to hangout when I go back or do you think I blew my shot and should just pursue other options.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She might be an option. The description is too vague and lacks detail. She texted you, establish contact meet her and do whatever you want I guess ?
 
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Yeah just call her. And enjoy talking to her. She could end up being your girlfriend.
 
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"I will be at ------ Friday at --time--. join me for some fun" send
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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om1xr said:
"I will be at ------ Friday at --time--. join me for some fun" send
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Good text. It has to be a place you are going regardless if she says yes or no. That way you maintain outcome independence.
 
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Be firm and say - "Hey, let's catch up for a game of bowling at <place> at <your time> on <your day or another day>!"

Just give two options ... (it's a marketing tactics) ...

Do not let them decide ... you take the lead and they have to follow ... :)
 
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aforabi said:
Be firm and say - "Hey, let's catch up for a game of bowling at <place> at <your time> on <your day or another day>!"

Just give two options ... (it's a marketing tactics) ...

Do not let them decide ... you take the lead and they have to follow ... :)
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Is the marketing tactic that you make them think they're making the decision for them self? Because thats obviously different for deciding and leading
 
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It's for YOU ...

You are trying to be both - little bit "flexible" but also firm!

If you give them three or more options, they really cannot decide. Two options, (either Tues or Wed) implies a lot of things - you are flexible, but you also don't have the whole week free for her. You have other things going on ... You just raised your value there by ONLY being available on those two days and not more than that...

The best marketing tactics is designed for the "marketer" - i.e. YOU!
 
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I used to book appointments door to door for home improvement salesmen. We used the tactic. You give a pitch and then offer a date. You give someone the opportunity to take control which they will jump at but really they're only making the choice you give them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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