"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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should i call her?

mejorimposible

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i met this girl like 2 months ago in a party, i talked with her a little, there was a moment of silence in the chat, im sure i should kissed here there but i didnt.
a friend of my gave me her phone number
should i call her?
im not sure what i should say in the call.
any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lets recap:

-Met her 2 months ago, I'll assume you haven't seen her since then.
-She never gave you her # but you are contemplating calling her anway
-your wondering if this is a good or bad idea


This all adds up to CREEPY!! Why don't you figure out where she hangs out and go there, chat her up, get her #, then ask her out?? Unless of course you like coming off as the desperate stocker type.



PIMP
 

mejorimposible

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yeah yeah i know its creepy
i should asked fot her phone but im to much of a noob and didnt
the question is what should i say to not sound creepy! thats it...
 

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Pimp-sicle said:
Lets recap:

-Met her 2 months ago, I'll assume you haven't seen her since then.
-She never gave you her # but you are contemplating calling her anway
-your wondering if this is a good or bad idea


This all adds up to CREEPY!! Why don't you figure out where she hangs out and go there, chat her up, get her #, then ask her out?? Unless of course you like coming off as the desperate stocker type.



PIMP
Yeah, I agree with Pimp. It's definately creepy to call someone who never gave you his/her number. She might think you're tracing her up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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