"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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should i call her?

mejorimposible

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i met this girl like 2 months ago in a party, i talked with her a little, there was a moment of silence in the chat, im sure i should kissed here there but i didnt.
a friend of my gave me her phone number
should i call her?
im not sure what i should say in the call.
any ideas?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lets recap:

-Met her 2 months ago, I'll assume you haven't seen her since then.
-She never gave you her # but you are contemplating calling her anway
-your wondering if this is a good or bad idea


This all adds up to CREEPY!! Why don't you figure out where she hangs out and go there, chat her up, get her #, then ask her out?? Unless of course you like coming off as the desperate stocker type.



PIMP
 

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yeah yeah i know its creepy
i should asked fot her phone but im to much of a noob and didnt
the question is what should i say to not sound creepy! thats it...
 

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Pimp-sicle said:
Lets recap:

-Met her 2 months ago, I'll assume you haven't seen her since then.
-She never gave you her # but you are contemplating calling her anway
-your wondering if this is a good or bad idea


This all adds up to CREEPY!! Why don't you figure out where she hangs out and go there, chat her up, get her #, then ask her out?? Unless of course you like coming off as the desperate stocker type.



PIMP
Yeah, I agree with Pimp. It's definately creepy to call someone who never gave you his/her number. She might think you're tracing her up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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