This girl does not understand the concept of offering another time. She's given me an ultimatum of that if I can't live with her schedule then walk on. She works and says she's tired after work so that eliminates 4 days out of week and her free time on weekend she wants to spend with her girls. I know she has interest but she's being spoilt expecting me to be at her beck and call when its convenient for her. I need to tell her what she's doing is spoilt and disrespectful to my time but she does not understand this concept. Am I better off not saying anything at all? Or responding to her text explaining why her denmands
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
should i call her bluff?
- Thread starter pete101
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
wow. You seriously have to ask? there is no hope for this relationship. this woman does not respect you and probably never will. As a man you have to take action.
what action u ask? Date other woman!
No explanation, no telling her she's sploit etc. just cut her off! do not respond to texts, if she calls don't respond to anything she says, tell her you'll call her back. Make her come to see you face to face... then lay down the law of what you expect from her.
Obviously if she never comes to see you it does not matter because you've already cut her off.
gl.
what action u ask? Date other woman!
No explanation, no telling her she's sploit etc. just cut her off! do not respond to texts, if she calls don't respond to anything she says, tell her you'll call her back. Make her come to see you face to face... then lay down the law of what you expect from her.
Obviously if she never comes to see you it does not matter because you've already cut her off.
gl.
My point is that she is interested I know she is but we only just started seeing each other and she's just 1 of these flakey girls who wants to do what she wants when she wants. I feel like I'm being overzealous tryna take up her time when I only been out with her on 2 dates. I'm seething cos she goes 'if that does not fit into your lifestyle then that's your probhlem' she literally does not know the concept of respect and wants to do things cadually of if you're free and she's free we'll hook up othereise never mind. I'm tryna be firm but its like I'm tryna be firm too much too soon, she specifically didn't eant a bf for this exact reason so she can come and go as she pleases I should counteract thst by being busy and out too. I feel she needs to be told exactly why what she's requesting is unreasonable cos she literally does not understand. Will me responding in detail why what sahe does not understand just going to backfire?
If you drop her out of your life, you will find out just exactly how interested she really is in you. Don't call or otherwise converse with her. If she comes begging after a week or two then she's interested in you. If she doesn't, then she's obviously not as interested in you as you'd like to think, and you must move on.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Her exact text was 'if u judge like that then keep on walking.. I already told u I have a tight schedule & I don't wanna tie my free time to a schedule too.. If that doesn't suit your lifestyle then that's your problem' this was after I said 'I judge a girl by her actions not words.. Words mean nothing to me' is she just testing me with this ultimatum? Cos if I don't come back she'll think that we're not suited. Would most afc's try to smooth things over but the manly thing would be to call her bluff and not respond or chase up? Will she feel like she missed out on something when I walk away? Or will she feel like it doesn't matter?