again, im the "P****" in the long distance, weekend only relationship....simple question, should i be calling her every night?....she never calls me BUT always answers when i do.....the only time she has called me was the two times i NC'd her for 3 days....we'd had a disagreement and i didn't call her for 3 days... we are in our 3rd month of talkin(not 4 like i had thought). I just hate the anxiety that i get be4 i call her at night. ...what the f^ck is that about?.....anyways....thanks in advance....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Should i call ...every night?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
kenpiffyjr
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Man...based on your other thread...op u are indeed a p#$$y. Grow some balls, some value, and be a man. Worrying about phone calls??? That's a female trait. You need to be working on some other girls to cure this oneitis you obviously have. Goodluck.
Mantis Toboggan
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A girl who you've dated for 3-4 months, but never had sex with.....should you call her every night?
What do you think the answer will be?
What do you think people here will advise you?
I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general.
What do you think the answer will be?
What do you think people here will advise you?
I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general.
loveshogun
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You gotta pay the troll toll, to get into this boy's soul/boy's hole.
A girl who you've dated for 3-4 months, but never had sex with.....should you call her every night?
"What do you think the answer will be?
What do you think people here will advise you?
I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general"
humor me please...and yes im dumb
"What do you think the answer will be?
What do you think people here will advise you?
I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general"
humor me please...and yes im dumb
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
if she wants to talk to you she will call you man.
other then that. just do your own thing. i learnt not to call the last girl i was with. took her 2 weeks to call me. so i knew i did something wrong right there.
other then that. just do your own thing. i learnt not to call the last girl i was with. took her 2 weeks to call me. so i knew i did something wrong right there.
Your name says teachme but you're not listening to the guys who are trying to help! Don't call her every night! Don't talk on the phone for hours! Next time you see her make sure you Fk her hard, you need it mate. Read the djbible!
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
You're a fail troll. I'm love rolling, but you just suck at it, I don't think this is the right job for you.
Mail man delivers
You seriously need to learn the ABC's of dating women. Women can know whether you are a wuss even before you start speaking. In your case, you are screaming on her face, that you are a wuss.
Anyway, as a Mail man, my job is to deliver the goods. So here is your mail for today;
"Don't ever call her again. Start acting like you don't care whether you will lose her or not. (You have been an ultra wuss for too damn long, you need a massive boost to convince her otherwise). Start making many female friends, make her realize that you have other options apart from her, and if she doesn't treat you right, she will lose you."
I know this seems crazy, but believe me, if you don't this, you will lose her. Heed my word, i'm the Mail Man.
You seriously need to learn the ABC's of dating women. Women can know whether you are a wuss even before you start speaking. In your case, you are screaming on her face, that you are a wuss.
Anyway, as a Mail man, my job is to deliver the goods. So here is your mail for today;
"Don't ever call her again. Start acting like you don't care whether you will lose her or not. (You have been an ultra wuss for too damn long, you need a massive boost to convince her otherwise). Start making many female friends, make her realize that you have other options apart from her, and if she doesn't treat you right, she will lose you."
I know this seems crazy, but believe me, if you don't this, you will lose her. Heed my word, i'm the Mail Man.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you really want to have sex with her you should send her a sms to inform her that you're going to call otherwise you risk to upset her.
(note to newbies,I'm sarcastic dont try this stuff at home, all the performers are professional dj operating in a controlled environment).
(note to newbies,I'm sarcastic dont try this stuff at home, all the performers are professional dj operating in a controlled environment).