"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should i call ...every night?

teachme

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again, im the "P****" in the long distance, weekend only relationship....simple question, should i be calling her every night?....she never calls me BUT always answers when i do.....the only time she has called me was the two times i NC'd her for 3 days....we'd had a disagreement and i didn't call her for 3 days... we are in our 3rd month of talkin(not 4 like i had thought). I just hate the anxiety that i get be4 i call her at night. ...what the f^ck is that about?.....anyways....thanks in advance....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kenpiffyjr

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Man...based on your other thread...op u are indeed a p#$$y. Grow some balls, some value, and be a man. Worrying about phone calls??? That's a female trait. You need to be working on some other girls to cure this oneitis you obviously have. Goodluck.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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A girl who you've dated for 3-4 months, but never had sex with.....should you call her every night?

What do you think the answer will be?

What do you think people here will advise you?

I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general.
 

loveshogun

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You gotta pay the troll toll, to get into this boy's soul/boy's hole.
 

teachme

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A girl who you've dated for 3-4 months, but never had sex with.....should you call her every night?

"What do you think the answer will be?

What do you think people here will advise you?

I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general"

humor me please...and yes im dumb :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Packers2010

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if she wants to talk to you she will call you man.

other then that. just do your own thing. i learnt not to call the last girl i was with. took her 2 weeks to call me. so i knew i did something wrong right there.
 

Htienvu

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Your name says teachme but you're not listening to the guys who are trying to help! Don't call her every night! Don't talk on the phone for hours! Next time you see her make sure you Fk her hard, you need it mate. Read the djbible!
 

Mail Man

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Mail man delivers

You seriously need to learn the ABC's of dating women. Women can know whether you are a wuss even before you start speaking. In your case, you are screaming on her face, that you are a wuss.

Anyway, as a Mail man, my job is to deliver the goods. So here is your mail for today;
"Don't ever call her again. Start acting like you don't care whether you will lose her or not. (You have been an ultra wuss for too damn long, you need a massive boost to convince her otherwise). Start making many female friends, make her realize that you have other options apart from her, and if she doesn't treat you right, she will lose you."
I know this seems crazy, but believe me, if you don't this, you will lose her. Heed my word, i'm the Mail Man.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Strelok

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If you really want to have sex with her you should send her a sms to inform her that you're going to call otherwise you risk to upset her.

(note to newbies,I'm sarcastic dont try this stuff at home, all the performers are professional dj operating in a controlled environment).
 
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