again, im the "P****" in the long distance, weekend only relationship....simple question, should i be calling her every night?....she never calls me BUT always answers when i do.....the only time she has called me was the two times i NC'd her for 3 days....we'd had a disagreement and i didn't call her for 3 days... we are in our 3rd month of talkin(not 4 like i had thought). I just hate the anxiety that i get be4 i call her at night. ...what the f^ck is that about?.....anyways....thanks in advance....
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Should i call ...every night?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
kenpiffyjr
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Man...based on your other thread...op u are indeed a p#$$y. Grow some balls, some value, and be a man. Worrying about phone calls??? That's a female trait. You need to be working on some other girls to cure this oneitis you obviously have. Goodluck.
Mantis Toboggan
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A girl who you've dated for 3-4 months, but never had sex with.....should you call her every night?
What do you think the answer will be?
What do you think people here will advise you?
I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general.
What do you think the answer will be?
What do you think people here will advise you?
I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general.
loveshogun
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You gotta pay the troll toll, to get into this boy's soul/boy's hole.
A girl who you've dated for 3-4 months, but never had sex with.....should you call her every night?
"What do you think the answer will be?
What do you think people here will advise you?
I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general"
humor me please...and yes im dumb
"What do you think the answer will be?
What do you think people here will advise you?
I know you're not too smart with women, but it's beginning to appear that you're just dumb in general"
humor me please...and yes im dumb
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
if she wants to talk to you she will call you man.
other then that. just do your own thing. i learnt not to call the last girl i was with. took her 2 weeks to call me. so i knew i did something wrong right there.
other then that. just do your own thing. i learnt not to call the last girl i was with. took her 2 weeks to call me. so i knew i did something wrong right there.
Your name says teachme but you're not listening to the guys who are trying to help! Don't call her every night! Don't talk on the phone for hours! Next time you see her make sure you Fk her hard, you need it mate. Read the djbible!
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
You're a fail troll. I'm love rolling, but you just suck at it, I don't think this is the right job for you.
Mail man delivers
You seriously need to learn the ABC's of dating women. Women can know whether you are a wuss even before you start speaking. In your case, you are screaming on her face, that you are a wuss.
Anyway, as a Mail man, my job is to deliver the goods. So here is your mail for today;
"Don't ever call her again. Start acting like you don't care whether you will lose her or not. (You have been an ultra wuss for too damn long, you need a massive boost to convince her otherwise). Start making many female friends, make her realize that you have other options apart from her, and if she doesn't treat you right, she will lose you."
I know this seems crazy, but believe me, if you don't this, you will lose her. Heed my word, i'm the Mail Man.
You seriously need to learn the ABC's of dating women. Women can know whether you are a wuss even before you start speaking. In your case, you are screaming on her face, that you are a wuss.
Anyway, as a Mail man, my job is to deliver the goods. So here is your mail for today;
"Don't ever call her again. Start acting like you don't care whether you will lose her or not. (You have been an ultra wuss for too damn long, you need a massive boost to convince her otherwise). Start making many female friends, make her realize that you have other options apart from her, and if she doesn't treat you right, she will lose you."
I know this seems crazy, but believe me, if you don't this, you will lose her. Heed my word, i'm the Mail Man.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you really want to have sex with her you should send her a sms to inform her that you're going to call otherwise you risk to upset her.
(note to newbies,I'm sarcastic dont try this stuff at home, all the performers are professional dj operating in a controlled environment).
(note to newbies,I'm sarcastic dont try this stuff at home, all the performers are professional dj operating in a controlled environment).