Should I break up?

[kx361]

Hey guys, I've got a catch 22 situation here. I'm a freshman in college, been going now for a couple of weeks. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months, but she's a junior in high school. Things were great during the summer, but now i'm lucky to see her once a week. It feels like we're growing apart, even thought we both have a great time together and she wants to keep the relationship alive. I don't think I can handle a relationship where i'm probably gonna spend a couple hours one time a week with her for two years until she lives in my town for college. Right now she doesn't drive, so if I wanna see her that means driving an hour each way back to my hometown. I'm scared that If we do break up, I won't find any girl around here that's as cool and loving, or be too shy to even get another girl.
Basically I'm not being satisfied physically or emotionally nearly enough with such limited contact.
Is it a bastard move to meet and flirt with other girls in case we do break up?
Problem is, i'm scared to death to talk to her about it, 'cause she started crying when she thought I was getting ready to talk to her about the situation.
WTF should I do?

 

[Lucas718]

One of my biggest regrets was having a girlfriend during my college years.

 

[Bronxtal112]

One of my biggest regrets was having a girlfriend during my college years.

I second that. Tons and tons of missed opportunity.

 

[donjuanjovi]

Just break up with her. It's for your and her own good

 

[flexion_]

You can take the comfortable way out or the right way out. Its not our decision.

 

[kx361]

Any advice on making a breakup less brutal?

 

[Bronxtal112]

Any advice on making a breakup less brutal?

The only advice I have is to be honest with yourself. If you are 100% honest with your decision, you will have no regrets down the road. Also, she should respect the fact that you’re being honest and not playing games with her by ending it.

 

[anointed]

"I'm scared that If we do break up, I won't find any girl around here that's as cool and loving, or be too shy to even get another girl."

thats the only reason ur with her cos ur too whack to find another girl. My advice is step ya game up and dont settle for things when its in you to get better. End it.. 2 months? its nothing.

 

[The_Lifter]

One of my biggest regrets was having a girlfriend during my college years.

Agreed.

 

[kx361]

Thanks guys, there's some good knowledge to be had on this site

 

[tuxen]

Your gut tells you to break up.

In time your head will agree.