"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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should i bother?

big weezy

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i had an internet date with this 40 year old woman who seemed to be into me. she was really annoying, complaining about being cold before she'd even arrived then tried to get me to go to a different bar.. seems demanding, high maintenance.. i sat in the bar and she came in trying to look for somewhere else to sit, i told her there aren't any more spaces and she insisted on going around looking.. it really p1ssed me off. i did not look happy. spent the whole time pretty much arguing with her the entire date yet she still seems to be into me.

she wouldn't let me kiss close her but let me feel her up grab her a$$, legs etc. she has 2 kids, 1 15 who babysits the other when she goes on dates. im tryna spin other plates but my other option hasn't texted me back (the brunch offer 1 from my other thread) seeing as she appears to be my only option should i bother?

i cant see how i'd bang her at hers, i doubt her 15 year old will want to hear her mom being pounded on a Sat night so unless she's out i can't see how this will happen. i can't f her at mine and im not springing for a motel.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you can't be bothered, don't.
If you want to then do.
Do what you want to do, I don't see how this is a question for the board.

Peace.
 

big weezy

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******* said:
Why can't you bang her at your place?
i live with my folks, so no can do.

realistically i could only do it if a)her daughter goes to a party on Fri-Sat night (she'd prob have to pick her up at midnight) and her other son who's 7 goes to bed at 10, so that time window of 10-12 i could come over..assuming she is down for that?

i assume a normal sane single mother wouldn't want strange men in her house at the same time as her kids.

or b)try to fool around in the car

i just feel i dont wanna waste another 20-25 dollars on 2-3 more dates for it to go nowhere, apart from me giving her attention, feeling her up and that's it. maybe i'll get head in the car. most i can expect.

plus she gives me the whole speech of 'i dont do anything casual.. but at same time im not looking for anything serious.. so we'll see how it goes'

i think she's into me physically which is good which might stop me being in the 'provider' category adn more the 'lover' plus im much younger than her.
 

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Trust me, if she wants to fvck you bad enough, she will drop the kids off somewhere to facilitate taking that d!ck...

Only one way to find out...invite her to cook dinner for you and see what happens...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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