"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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should i bother?

big weezy

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i had an internet date with this 40 year old woman who seemed to be into me. she was really annoying, complaining about being cold before she'd even arrived then tried to get me to go to a different bar.. seems demanding, high maintenance.. i sat in the bar and she came in trying to look for somewhere else to sit, i told her there aren't any more spaces and she insisted on going around looking.. it really p1ssed me off. i did not look happy. spent the whole time pretty much arguing with her the entire date yet she still seems to be into me.

she wouldn't let me kiss close her but let me feel her up grab her a$$, legs etc. she has 2 kids, 1 15 who babysits the other when she goes on dates. im tryna spin other plates but my other option hasn't texted me back (the brunch offer 1 from my other thread) seeing as she appears to be my only option should i bother?

i cant see how i'd bang her at hers, i doubt her 15 year old will want to hear her mom being pounded on a Sat night so unless she's out i can't see how this will happen. i can't f her at mine and im not springing for a motel.
 

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If you can't be bothered, don't.
If you want to then do.
Do what you want to do, I don't see how this is a question for the board.

Peace.
 

big weezy

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******* said:
Why can't you bang her at your place?
i live with my folks, so no can do.

realistically i could only do it if a)her daughter goes to a party on Fri-Sat night (she'd prob have to pick her up at midnight) and her other son who's 7 goes to bed at 10, so that time window of 10-12 i could come over..assuming she is down for that?

i assume a normal sane single mother wouldn't want strange men in her house at the same time as her kids.

or b)try to fool around in the car

i just feel i dont wanna waste another 20-25 dollars on 2-3 more dates for it to go nowhere, apart from me giving her attention, feeling her up and that's it. maybe i'll get head in the car. most i can expect.

plus she gives me the whole speech of 'i dont do anything casual.. but at same time im not looking for anything serious.. so we'll see how it goes'

i think she's into me physically which is good which might stop me being in the 'provider' category adn more the 'lover' plus im much younger than her.
 

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Trust me, if she wants to fvck you bad enough, she will drop the kids off somewhere to facilitate taking that d!ck...

Only one way to find out...invite her to cook dinner for you and see what happens...
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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