"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I bother with University professor?

bario

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Attended one of my lectures today and the professor turned out to be a very beautiful, young lady (mid 30s, I assume). Look wise, a lady of my dreams!

I know that this can be dangerous being university atmosphere and me regardless of my work or wealth, still a student there.

Should I try to get something out of this or do you think I should just forget about it and date different women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Visionist

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How important is the course you're taking to you? If it isn't that important, be still aware of metoo and all the other bullsh!t that's trendy now.

It's obviously a bad idea. But if you gotta smash you gotta smash I guess. Nobody can stop you.
 
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