"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I be worried?

JLW

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My gf who I've been having an LTR with hung out with this kid (we'll call him Justin).

Basically, Justin is a bad news kid. He does drugs, he's pretty much a full-on alcoholic, cheats on his girlfriend constantly, and pretty much is an all-around *******. Complete dirtbag.

Anyway, she has been hanging out with him because she goes to school with him. She goes a different school than most of her friends. She has hung out with him 3 times over her spring break because she doesn't really have anyone else to hang out with.

The reason for this is because all of her friends have a different spring break. My gf's and Justin's spring break is this week, while all of her other friends' spring breaks (including mine) are next week.

Also, my girlfriend is a very very social person. She hates staying in alone. So she's sorta hanging out with him cuz there's no one else to hang out with.

But should I be worried about Justin making a move on her? Am I being insecure about it? I mean, I wouldn't really care if they were in a group, but that's not the case. They're hanging out alone.

Should I intervene and say something to her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JLW

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By the way, this girl has pretty high interests for me.

And she still has been interested in sex (meaning she isnt getting it from anywhere else, including Justin). I'm just afraid that he will make a pass on her.

She has mentioned that he's a good friend, and she would "never hook up with him" a long time ago when he was mentioned a while ago. I'm pretty sure he's in the friend zone, but I really cant say for sure.
 

JLW

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Well I was just thinking it would be insecure and sorta weak to ask her. but at the same time it seems WAY too controlling to say "You can't hang out with him"
 

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find an indirect way, like "what you guys get up to" or something
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JLW

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Anyone else have feedback on this?
 

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did she make him her friend (ljbf)?
she probally just wants someone to hang out with, it doesnt mean that she wants him.
 
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