"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I be worried?

JLW

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My gf who I've been having an LTR with hung out with this kid (we'll call him Justin).

Basically, Justin is a bad news kid. He does drugs, he's pretty much a full-on alcoholic, cheats on his girlfriend constantly, and pretty much is an all-around *******. Complete dirtbag.

Anyway, she has been hanging out with him because she goes to school with him. She goes a different school than most of her friends. She has hung out with him 3 times over her spring break because she doesn't really have anyone else to hang out with.

The reason for this is because all of her friends have a different spring break. My gf's and Justin's spring break is this week, while all of her other friends' spring breaks (including mine) are next week.

Also, my girlfriend is a very very social person. She hates staying in alone. So she's sorta hanging out with him cuz there's no one else to hang out with.

But should I be worried about Justin making a move on her? Am I being insecure about it? I mean, I wouldn't really care if they were in a group, but that's not the case. They're hanging out alone.

Should I intervene and say something to her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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By the way, this girl has pretty high interests for me.

And she still has been interested in sex (meaning she isnt getting it from anywhere else, including Justin). I'm just afraid that he will make a pass on her.

She has mentioned that he's a good friend, and she would "never hook up with him" a long time ago when he was mentioned a while ago. I'm pretty sure he's in the friend zone, but I really cant say for sure.
 

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Well I was just thinking it would be insecure and sorta weak to ask her. but at the same time it seems WAY too controlling to say "You can't hang out with him"
 

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find an indirect way, like "what you guys get up to" or something
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JLW

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Anyone else have feedback on this?
 

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did she make him her friend (ljbf)?
she probally just wants someone to hang out with, it doesnt mean that she wants him.
 
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