"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I be friends with a gay guy who's into me? Will he give me access to more HBs?

thechosenone2190

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I went out to a house party and met a guy whom I'm willing to bet money on that he's gay. I met him through a mutual friend, and he seemed to give me a lot of attention. I'm not completely sure if he's attracted to me, but I wouldn't be surprised if he was. He's also quite good looking no homo and knows a lot of girls based on his Facebook. Should I remain his friend?

Bottomline: Is making friends with a gay guy a good way to access more HBs from his social circle? We all know how many female friends gay guys usually have.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SandHawk

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I would say it's worth it. I have a gay friend who was into me when I first met him. Instead of giving off the vibe about being interested, I just dropped a few stories about my ex girlfriend and hilarious things that happened during dates and he knew he didn't have to bother trying to hit on me.

That turned into a fun friendship. We went clubbing, he introduced me to a f*ckton of his lady friends(of which always four accompanied him when clubbing) and I scored my share of lays through him. Just make sure you message him that you're straight in a pretty subtle way, by conveying stories about dates / ex-girlfriends.

Unlike what a lot of homophobes believe, he will not attempt to rape you in the bum, suck your c*ck when you're not watching or sneak a finger in your ass. A lot of gay people are just like heterosexuals looking for a mutual relationship with someone they can love.
 

Semtex

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If he has a thing for you what makes you think he wont ****block?
 

MurdocNiccals

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Hahaha! If he invites you over for a movie, just say NO!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Levex

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SandHawk said:
Unlike what a lot of homophobes believe, he will not attempt to rape you in the bum, suck your c*ck when you're not watching or sneak a finger in your ass.
omg, that made me crack up. :crackup:

But yeah, if he's cool to hang out with, why not? Just another guy friend.
Now if he does try some sneaky sh1t and slip you the sausage..thats another story.
 
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