"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I be friends with a gay guy who's into me? Will he give me access to more HBs?

thechosenone2190

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I went out to a house party and met a guy whom I'm willing to bet money on that he's gay. I met him through a mutual friend, and he seemed to give me a lot of attention. I'm not completely sure if he's attracted to me, but I wouldn't be surprised if he was. He's also quite good looking no homo and knows a lot of girls based on his Facebook. Should I remain his friend?

Bottomline: Is making friends with a gay guy a good way to access more HBs from his social circle? We all know how many female friends gay guys usually have.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SandHawk

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I would say it's worth it. I have a gay friend who was into me when I first met him. Instead of giving off the vibe about being interested, I just dropped a few stories about my ex girlfriend and hilarious things that happened during dates and he knew he didn't have to bother trying to hit on me.

That turned into a fun friendship. We went clubbing, he introduced me to a f*ckton of his lady friends(of which always four accompanied him when clubbing) and I scored my share of lays through him. Just make sure you message him that you're straight in a pretty subtle way, by conveying stories about dates / ex-girlfriends.

Unlike what a lot of homophobes believe, he will not attempt to rape you in the bum, suck your c*ck when you're not watching or sneak a finger in your ass. A lot of gay people are just like heterosexuals looking for a mutual relationship with someone they can love.
 

Semtex

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If he has a thing for you what makes you think he wont ****block?
 

MurdocNiccals

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Hahaha! If he invites you over for a movie, just say NO!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Levex

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SandHawk said:
Unlike what a lot of homophobes believe, he will not attempt to rape you in the bum, suck your c*ck when you're not watching or sneak a finger in your ass.
omg, that made me crack up. :crackup:

But yeah, if he's cool to hang out with, why not? Just another guy friend.
Now if he does try some sneaky sh1t and slip you the sausage..thats another story.
 
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