"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I be friends with a gay guy who's into me? Will he give me access to more HBs?

thechosenone2190

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I went out to a house party and met a guy whom I'm willing to bet money on that he's gay. I met him through a mutual friend, and he seemed to give me a lot of attention. I'm not completely sure if he's attracted to me, but I wouldn't be surprised if he was. He's also quite good looking no homo and knows a lot of girls based on his Facebook. Should I remain his friend?

Bottomline: Is making friends with a gay guy a good way to access more HBs from his social circle? We all know how many female friends gay guys usually have.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SandHawk

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I would say it's worth it. I have a gay friend who was into me when I first met him. Instead of giving off the vibe about being interested, I just dropped a few stories about my ex girlfriend and hilarious things that happened during dates and he knew he didn't have to bother trying to hit on me.

That turned into a fun friendship. We went clubbing, he introduced me to a f*ckton of his lady friends(of which always four accompanied him when clubbing) and I scored my share of lays through him. Just make sure you message him that you're straight in a pretty subtle way, by conveying stories about dates / ex-girlfriends.

Unlike what a lot of homophobes believe, he will not attempt to rape you in the bum, suck your c*ck when you're not watching or sneak a finger in your ass. A lot of gay people are just like heterosexuals looking for a mutual relationship with someone they can love.
 

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If he has a thing for you what makes you think he wont ****block?
 

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Hahaha! If he invites you over for a movie, just say NO!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Levex

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SandHawk said:
Unlike what a lot of homophobes believe, he will not attempt to rape you in the bum, suck your c*ck when you're not watching or sneak a finger in your ass.
omg, that made me crack up. :crackup:

But yeah, if he's cool to hang out with, why not? Just another guy friend.
Now if he does try some sneaky sh1t and slip you the sausage..thats another story.
 
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