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Should I ask this girl if she's single?

Physicist.

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I've been talking to this girl for a week more or less, yesterday I found out that there's a good chance that she's messing around with another dude(no conclusive evidence) so I just decided to go NC on that beetch thinking if she's into me she will definitely text me, if she doesn't text, she isn't worth my time.
After thinking better about it, I came up with other possibilities: straight up ask her if she's avaiable/single(could be awkward and give the wrong impression) or inviting her to a date. What do yall think?
PS: She did seem attracted to me, but I don't want to be no CUCK lmao
 
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resilient

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Don't ask if she's single. Single or not it sounds like you're competing at some level. If a girl's hot she always has options. The trick is to be her best option. If you end up being on top, she'll likely drop the other orbiters. Thing is, you'll have to stay on top to keep her interest level holding steady. To me that's too much work, but hey... just make sure you're seeing other women simultaneously if you decide to pursue things with her.
 

BetterCallSaul

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Thing is, you'll have to stay on top to keep her interest level holding steady. To me that's too much work,
I cannot emphasize this enough. Hell it's deserving of it's own topic and has been discussed before. All these chicks that love stuff like constant travel and keep her entertained, begging you not to be boring. Yeah, as soon as she gets bored, she moves on. It's way too much damn work; let some other beta provider deal with that sh!t.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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