"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I ask this girl if she's single?

Physicist.

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I've been talking to this girl for a week more or less, yesterday I found out that there's a good chance that she's messing around with another dude(no conclusive evidence) so I just decided to go NC on that beetch thinking if she's into me she will definitely text me, if she doesn't text, she isn't worth my time.
After thinking better about it, I came up with other possibilities: straight up ask her if she's avaiable/single(could be awkward and give the wrong impression) or inviting her to a date. What do yall think?
PS: She did seem attracted to me, but I don't want to be no CUCK lmao
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't ask if she's single. Single or not it sounds like you're competing at some level. If a girl's hot she always has options. The trick is to be her best option. If you end up being on top, she'll likely drop the other orbiters. Thing is, you'll have to stay on top to keep her interest level holding steady. To me that's too much work, but hey... just make sure you're seeing other women simultaneously if you decide to pursue things with her.
 

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Thing is, you'll have to stay on top to keep her interest level holding steady. To me that's too much work,
I cannot emphasize this enough. Hell it's deserving of it's own topic and has been discussed before. All these chicks that love stuff like constant travel and keep her entertained, begging you not to be boring. Yeah, as soon as she gets bored, she moves on. It's way too much damn work; let some other beta provider deal with that sh!t.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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