"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I ask this girl if she's single?

Physicist.

Physicist.

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I've been talking to this girl for a week more or less, yesterday I found out that there's a good chance that she's messing around with another dude(no conclusive evidence) so I just decided to go NC on that beetch thinking if she's into me she will definitely text me, if she doesn't text, she isn't worth my time.
After thinking better about it, I came up with other possibilities: straight up ask her if she's avaiable/single(could be awkward and give the wrong impression) or inviting her to a date. What do yall think?
PS: She did seem attracted to me, but I don't want to be no CUCK lmao
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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resilient

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Don't ask if she's single. Single or not it sounds like you're competing at some level. If a girl's hot she always has options. The trick is to be her best option. If you end up being on top, she'll likely drop the other orbiters. Thing is, you'll have to stay on top to keep her interest level holding steady. To me that's too much work, but hey... just make sure you're seeing other women simultaneously if you decide to pursue things with her.
 
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resilient said:
Thing is, you'll have to stay on top to keep her interest level holding steady. To me that's too much work,
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I cannot emphasize this enough. Hell it's deserving of it's own topic and has been discussed before. All these chicks that love stuff like constant travel and keep her entertained, begging you not to be boring. Yeah, as soon as she gets bored, she moves on. It's way too much damn work; let some other beta provider deal with that sh!t.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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