“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Should I ask out my bosses granddaughter?

Macaframalama

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2017
Messages
1,084
Reaction score
696
Age
48
So, my bosses granddaughter has just went through a divorce and I've been contemplating asking her out, but not sure wether I should be mixing business with pleasure. Her grandfather owns a multi-million dollar company that he created from the ground up, which is ran by the whole family. She actually cuts my checks, her mother is the lead accountant on the way out and her uncle runs the day to day, so there's the potential to royally fvck some chit up. We gel pretty well as far as convo goes and have had some lengthy talks, but I've been leery of attempting turning it sexy at all. She would also be the most attractive girl I've dated, but the older I get, the better looking and younger the girls I'm picking up are getting, so I'm confident, but if I was to put money on it, I would give myself a 40/60 chance realistically of her saying yes. I don't like living with regret, but I could also possibly end up regretting losing a decent paying job, that I've worked for 5+ years.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

RedScorpion

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 23, 2012
Messages
410
Reaction score
216
Age
38
Go for it. But don't be surprised that if things go downhill with this girl, then she's going to be expressing herself to those closest to her. Especially since it's a very tight knit company-family group. Depending on what happened and how she handles a split between you two - could range from minor repercussions to major.

You already know the risks at hand here.
 
A

AJ84

Guest
I don't think it's a good idea.

A just divorced woman, related to your boss and involved in the family business, it's all too close to your job security. If it doesn't work out and she feels hurt by you what could the consequences be?

Not worth it, in my opinion. Family run businesses are very loyal to each other and will do things that other employers can't easily do, like find a way to sack the guy who pumped and dumped the granddaughter of the owner of the company.
 

Macaframalama

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2017
Messages
1,084
Reaction score
696
Age
48
Yea, I didn't even think of the consequences of if it did end up going somewhere and ending badly later down the line.
 

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
Unless you don't care about your job then go for it.

In my experience, dating coworkers or anything of the like always leads to disaster.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Top