“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Should I ask out my bosses granddaughter?

Macaframalama

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So, my bosses granddaughter has just went through a divorce and I've been contemplating asking her out, but not sure wether I should be mixing business with pleasure. Her grandfather owns a multi-million dollar company that he created from the ground up, which is ran by the whole family. She actually cuts my checks, her mother is the lead accountant on the way out and her uncle runs the day to day, so there's the potential to royally fvck some chit up. We gel pretty well as far as convo goes and have had some lengthy talks, but I've been leery of attempting turning it sexy at all. She would also be the most attractive girl I've dated, but the older I get, the better looking and younger the girls I'm picking up are getting, so I'm confident, but if I was to put money on it, I would give myself a 40/60 chance realistically of her saying yes. I don't like living with regret, but I could also possibly end up regretting losing a decent paying job, that I've worked for 5+ years.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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RedScorpion

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Go for it. But don't be surprised that if things go downhill with this girl, then she's going to be expressing herself to those closest to her. Especially since it's a very tight knit company-family group. Depending on what happened and how she handles a split between you two - could range from minor repercussions to major.

You already know the risks at hand here.
 
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I don't think it's a good idea.

A just divorced woman, related to your boss and involved in the family business, it's all too close to your job security. If it doesn't work out and she feels hurt by you what could the consequences be?

Not worth it, in my opinion. Family run businesses are very loyal to each other and will do things that other employers can't easily do, like find a way to sack the guy who pumped and dumped the granddaughter of the owner of the company.
 

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Yea, I didn't even think of the consequences of if it did end up going somewhere and ending badly later down the line.
 

El Payaso

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Unless you don't care about your job then go for it.

In my experience, dating coworkers or anything of the like always leads to disaster.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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