Should I ask her out to lunch, NOW..

[Kendog]

Ive been chatting with this girl(on AIM!), a little chubby but her face is kind of cute, wtf, I need some practice and I might be surprised anyways.

Im thinking about saying this: "hey, are busy tommorow"? (sunday) "want to join me for lunch at Subway?"

Im sure she'll say yes and then im set?
she's obviously lonely and she's giving me hints that her ex is on the prowl for her again so I need to act fast.

Factors that are making me hesitate:
1. my 2nd cousin (same last name) lost his virginity to her and is an old ex.
2. She already has established me as a friend becuase I've never made a solid move in the 3 weeks or so i've been chatting with ehr on AIM.

 

[AFK Protector]

Originally posted by Kendog
Ive been chatting with this girl(on AIM!), a little chubby but her face is kind of cute, wtf, I need some practice and I might be surprised anyways.

Im thinking about saying this: "hey, are busy tommorow"? (sunday) "want to join me for lunch at Subway?"

Im sure she'll say yes and then im set?
she's obviously lonely and she's giving me hints that her ex is on the prowl for her again so I need to act fast.

Factors that are making me hesitate:
1. my 2nd cousin (same last name) lost his virginity to her and is an old ex.
2. She already has established me as a friend becuase I've never made a solid move in the 3 weeks or so i've been chatting with ehr on AIM.

.........I never made a move on HALF the girls at MY school for...for...4 years!!! ...maybe that's why all the noobs are getting the women.

 

[Kendog]

Ill take that as yes i should just do it becuae im a pathetic n00b

 

[Kendog]

thanks, i have some confidence problems maybe. I'm such a *****, I feel like a 12 year old having a hard time asking her to lunch over AIM!!! dear god help me., once i press send theres no turning back.

 

[Life-Trainee]

Geez, whats the worst that can happen?

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by Kendog
thanks, i have some confidence problems maybe. I'm such a *****, I feel like a 12 year old having a hard time asking her to lunch over AIM!!! dear god help me., once i press send theres no turning back.

yes we all fear rejection, but we have to look the devil in the eyes sometimes and face our fears. you never know the outcome unless u try right??

c'mon it's just lunch, no real biggie. just think of her as a colleague you know

 

[DEKKA]

go for it mayne. you'll be fine.

here's a mantra for ya

"Fvck it , piss on it, bring it, hell no i aint cutting my hair, and i aint scared!"

good luck

-J

 

[Ace of Spades]

If she's kinda chubby, like you said, and you're asking her out to lunch to Subway, I wouldn't be surprised if she took it the wrong way and thought you are calling her fat.