Mixedlinks
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Should I ask her if she is dating other people?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I can't believe you are even asking this brother...
You have gone out with this girl 3 TIMES!!!! Obviously she isn't dating anyone, and if she ends up telling you that she is then she's probably lying to you because she put you in the friend zone for keeping her waiting so much! When are you going to make your move on her?? She's only human can't keep the poor gal waiting forever!
Asking her if she is dating other people is the last thing you should have on your mind. The first thing you should have on your mind is escalating and kissing her and kissing her ASAP!
If you don't make your move then guess what? she will think you don't like her as a possible romantic partner and she will inevitably end up in the arms of some guy that shows her some love. Women lose their patience..
When a woman agrees to go out with you
1. It's because she finds you attractive/interesting or a combination of both
2. She would be open to see "where this can lead" as in a possible relationship
3. She's ready for romance again. Women want romance and action as much as we do.
Just remember the above for next time and try to kiss close by the 2nd or third date.
hb: how many girlfriends have you had
hero: 167
You never want to be seen as a lonely virgin that doesn't get women. Just lie, exaggerate. Women are attracted to men that have or have had lots of women in their lives.
You have gone out with this girl 3 TIMES!!!! Obviously she isn't dating anyone, and if she ends up telling you that she is then she's probably lying to you because she put you in the friend zone for keeping her waiting so much! When are you going to make your move on her?? She's only human can't keep the poor gal waiting forever!
Asking her if she is dating other people is the last thing you should have on your mind. The first thing you should have on your mind is escalating and kissing her and kissing her ASAP!
If you don't make your move then guess what? she will think you don't like her as a possible romantic partner and she will inevitably end up in the arms of some guy that shows her some love. Women lose their patience..
When a woman agrees to go out with you
1. It's because she finds you attractive/interesting or a combination of both
2. She would be open to see "where this can lead" as in a possible relationship
3. She's ready for romance again. Women want romance and action as much as we do.
Just remember the above for next time and try to kiss close by the 2nd or third date.
Exagerate
hb: how many girlfriends have you had
hero: 167
You never want to be seen as a lonely virgin that doesn't get women. Just lie, exaggerate. Women are attracted to men that have or have had lots of women in their lives.
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I haven't come on here that much anymore & now I know why!!!
Are you that socially inept & needy that you need validation? 4 DATES??? Please tell me you at least got heavy into kissing & touching before worrying about asking her dating experiences?
OK here's the lesson:
Girls date, girls fu*k, girls have lives...your job is to make them forget about ALL other activities & 'boys' in their lives!! you don't ask about who shes dating, who shes bang*in...you know why? because shouting loudly in your head should be the words, "SHES ONLY THINKING ABOUT ME BECAUSE IM THE BEST THING SINCE SLICED BREAD"
be confident! be cool & dont worry if shes exclusive
Are you that socially inept & needy that you need validation? 4 DATES??? Please tell me you at least got heavy into kissing & touching before worrying about asking her dating experiences?
OK here's the lesson:
Girls date, girls fu*k, girls have lives...your job is to make them forget about ALL other activities & 'boys' in their lives!! you don't ask about who shes dating, who shes bang*in...you know why? because shouting loudly in your head should be the words, "SHES ONLY THINKING ABOUT ME BECAUSE IM THE BEST THING SINCE SLICED BREAD"
be confident! be cool & dont worry if shes exclusive
Naughty Ninja
Banned
To the TS. Don't ask her anything like that. And don't wait.
Those who wait....masturbate.
Those who wait....masturbate.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Should be also noted other than all the obvious things the others have pointed out and are spot on about, your moving BACKWARDS IN this scenario. Dates usually work something like this:
1st date: couple drinks at a local watering hole
2nd date: action date (bowling/mini golf/carnival etc)
3rd date: wine tasting or something like going to the beach etc
4th date: movie night aka: get some night
As many have said before, sexual attraction isn't something that is negotiated like a contract; its either there or it isn't. If its there and you two go out a few times, chances are she wants to fuvk you just as much as you want to fuvk her.
The reason your left scratching your head here and she's "hard to read" is all on you bro. I don't even need to ask you if you've kissed her, felt her up, banged her etc because I know you haven't done any of it. Remember if your not progressing your REGRESSING and those that regress are always the ones who start to question everything. Its a vicious cycle that then leads to you over-analyzing, which leads to you not being the guy that got her interest in the first place...... you see where this is going right?
Answer these questions:
1) What are your conversations about on these dates?
2) Has she touched you? Even casually?
3) Have you touched her?
4) Does she give off any sort of sexual vibe?
The situation looks bleak, but you might be able to salvage it if you get your act together.
PIMP
1st date: couple drinks at a local watering hole
2nd date: action date (bowling/mini golf/carnival etc)
3rd date: wine tasting or something like going to the beach etc
4th date: movie night aka: get some night
As many have said before, sexual attraction isn't something that is negotiated like a contract; its either there or it isn't. If its there and you two go out a few times, chances are she wants to fuvk you just as much as you want to fuvk her.
The reason your left scratching your head here and she's "hard to read" is all on you bro. I don't even need to ask you if you've kissed her, felt her up, banged her etc because I know you haven't done any of it. Remember if your not progressing your REGRESSING and those that regress are always the ones who start to question everything. Its a vicious cycle that then leads to you over-analyzing, which leads to you not being the guy that got her interest in the first place...... you see where this is going right?
Answer these questions:
1) What are your conversations about on these dates?
2) Has she touched you? Even casually?
3) Have you touched her?
4) Does she give off any sort of sexual vibe?
The situation looks bleak, but you might be able to salvage it if you get your act together.
PIMP